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3 June 2011

Melissa's flat chest makes her feel like a boy

I'm sure it doesn't help to hear that breasts come in all shapes and sizes, but they do. Putting on weight will help some women but for some, it won't ...

3 June 2011

Jess wants to know how to overcome her phobia of needles

This is obviously really affecting your life, especially if you are losing sleep and experiencing physical signs of stress. Have you thought about trying hypnosis?It is an accepted form of ...

2 June 2011

Robyn is fed up of faking orgasms

Okay, well to start with, I don't know whether or not you've had orgasms with your other sexual partners or if this is just a new thing, having to fake ...

2 June 2011

Deb doesn't want to commit to her f**k buddy toy boy

If two people enter in to a relationship on certain grounds, there's no contract taken out – nothing to say that as you get to know each other better and ...

2 June 2011

Leigh's guy has suddenly gone distant

Okay, well, to be honest, the signs aren't too good here. We've all been there at some point and, usually, we look back once it's well and truly over and ...

2 June 2011

Should Elaine bare all in order to futher her acting career?

Okay, well firstly, I'm a bit unsure why your college teacher is putting you in this position, making you vulnerable. You are still studying, still finding out who you really ...

2 June 2011

Shannon needs to know why she's never been on a date

I think I can spot one reason that might explain your frustration even without meeting you. The fact that you describe yourself as 'mediocre' looking suggests to me that it's ...

30 May 2011

Rachel's missed two periods but has no symptoms of being pregnant

If you're worrying about being pregnant, I suppose it goes without saying that you know you've had unprotected sex or you know your vagina could have come in to contact ...

17 May 2011

Violet's desire for another baby has killed off her sex life

What an unfulfilling situation you're in. You've tried to be sincere and have been patient, waiting for a relationship you can really believe in and yet now you discover ...

13 May 2011

Lily doesn't know how to handle her addict boyfriend

You clearly love him very much and want to be there for him - just be sure you don't use his need for recovery as some kind of prop. Do ...

11 May 2011

Wedding Dress

You're obviously disappointed that your trust in your colleagues was misplaced, and you feel let down by your manager for not supporting you or even acknowledging that this shouldn't have ...

9 May 2011

My partner is critcally ill and i'm pregnant

You’re obviously facing some major decisions here. Have you talked to both of your families, and to support workers, to find out what back-up you’d be able to call on ...

8 May 2011

How can I treat my depression

Hi Sarah, you don’t say how long you have been on depression but if you have been unemployed for nine months, are you claiming the Jobseekers Allowance? If you are ...

6 May 2011

Will my attraction feed the gossips

Firstly, congratulations on staying married for 21 years and, by the sounds of it, you have always been faithful. It’s a real achievement, especially in today’s society where infidelity is ...

3 May 2011

Edith's Worries about a mixed faith relationship

While some parents can be accepting and tolerant, those who can’t appreciate the benefits of a mixed-culture marriage can make life difficult for you and, at only 23, this is ...

3 May 2011

Mary's Facebook Concerns

I don’t know how old you are, but there are plenty of people probably reading this who remember a time before Facebook, and how you had no possible way to ...

1 May 2011

Mum & Dad will throw me outbecause I am a lesbian!

I don’t know how old your sister is but my first instinct would be to suggest talking to her in advance. She might be flattered that you consider her willing ...

1 May 2011

Breast Feeding Has Shrunk My Breasts

You don’t say how long ago you stopped breastfeeding but this is quite common. Do you weigh less than you did before you were pregnant? This can also affect breast ...

27 April 2011

Jess is losing her freinds due to her Ex

Your friend seems to have taken the typical approach that friends do when you get back with an ex who wasn’t treating you well. He let his friends’ lies and ...

26 April 2011

Louise No longer sexually attracted to her husband

Are there other aspects of your relationship you could address that, if improved, might persuade you to work at it? Without the intimacy that comes from being soul mates and ...

12 April 2011

Am I Wasting My Time

You seem confused. Four and a half years is a long time to be happy to fool around. Has either of you had any other relationships during this time? Why ...

11 April 2011

Jamie Is being Cyber blackmailed

Regardless of what motivated you to expose yourself to this man, now need to protect yourself from a cyber stalker. Before thinking about protecting your marriage, you should be thinking ...

5 April 2011

Shelzi's ponders leaving her partner

When you say you ‘think’ you’ve fallen for another guy, how come you aren’t sure? Do you mean you fancy another guy or you’ve fallen in love? I would be ...

1 April 2011

How do I start dating

When people admit to being shy, it’s often because someone has labelled them shy at some point. Are you really shy or are you just happy in your own company ...