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7 December 2011

Shirley Is A Stranger When It Comes To Her Own Body

You obviously enjoy an active, satisfying sex life and after 31 years with your husband, that’s something to really feel good about. You’re obviously both keen on experimenting but if ...

28 November 2011

Leanne Wants More From Her Man

Do you think you could be depressed, as a result of your miscarriage? It sounds as if you haven’t both sat down and really thrashed out how it left you ...

21 November 2011

Michelle Has A Relationship Choice

Take a huge positive out of this situation - however confused you’re feeling, you haven’t walked down the aisle with this guy and signed away your heart and life to ...

21 November 2011

I Need Sex But My Girlfriend Seems To Have Gone Off Me

You don’t say why it’s a problem that she covers up - surely you don’t need her to flaunt herself if she doesn’t want to? Not all girls expose a ...

21 November 2011

Anonymous And Mystery Pregnancy Symptoms

This is a really alarming story you’ve shared, and no wonder you are worried. You’re right - it is serious and urgent. You should go to see your GP as ...

21 November 2011

Jess’ Mum Doesn’T Trust Her

Mothers have a way of knowing when their daughters are hiding something or just going through a rough time, and if she’s stopped you seeing your boyfriend, it’s probably based ...

18 November 2011

Maged Sees Love For Him In His Colleague’s Eyes

I don’t think age is the issue here; how did you know she was recently divorced? Perhaps she does like you but it’s too soon for her. I suggest you ...

18 November 2011

Chantelle Thinks Her Partner Still Loves His Wife Of 20 Years

It’s fairly reasonable for someone to find it hard to just switch off from a 20-year marriage, one that produced three children. To walk away from all of that is ...

18 November 2011

Chantelle Thinks Her Partner Still Loves His Wife Of 20 Years

Some people thrive on arguing and debate, and they enjoy the drama and the emotional high of ‘making up’. Some people hate it; to them, arguing is a waste of ...

18 November 2011

Charlee’s Getting Mixed Messages From Her Ex

It sounds like a really confusing situation and yet you’ve done nothing wrong. You’re definitely getting mixed messages from your ex but be wary of it not just being a ...

14 November 2011

Jackie’s Toxic Friendships Have Left Her Depressed

You have really been surrounding yourself with negative influences haven’t you? Firstly, if you have had suicidal thoughts recently, you must contact your GP or your counsellor as a matter ...

14 November 2011

Superior’s Phone Chat Has Gone Flat With Her Boyfriend

Sometimes familiarity and talking every night on the phone can get too much; even a married couple who have a week apart because of work commitments can struggle to find ...

14 November 2011

Shelley Doesn’t Feel Wanted Since Having Her Baby

There are new mums everywhere having conversations that start from this point - feeling low, frustrated, unattractive. You have a good starting point though, you actually want sex. Many new ...

14 November 2011

Angela Is Worried About Being A Virgin Forever

Being shy isn’t a barrier to getting a boyfriend. It doesn’t sound as if you’re a hermit you may not go out all that often but if you’re going to ...

14 November 2011

Katie And Her Best Friend Want To Be Together

Your friends might well tell you they’ve had sex but that’s no guarantee - and it’s not a competition. You have a guy who wants to meet your parents and ...

14 November 2011

Angela’s Got A Big Life Choice To Make

The good news is that you are 16 and have a lot of time on your side. Also, you clearly have parents who care about you because they want the ...

14 November 2011

Anna's Problem Between The Sheets

You’ve raised more than one issue here - the difficulty reaching orgasm vaginally, the imcompatibility between you and your boyfriend and the fact that it’s upsetting you. It’s no good ...

7 November 2011

Kaillee Wonders If Her New Guy Is Too Good To Be True

He sounds really caring and I don’t see a problem with an eight-year age gap either. You’re both adults. He seems to be there for you when you need him ...

7 November 2011

Samantha Needs Her Girlfriend To Write A Script For Their Conversations

I’m not sure how long you’ve been together, but it sounds as though your girlfriend is a bit insecure and has an idea in her head of what people in ...

7 November 2011

Ellie Doesn’t Know How To Come Out About Being Bi

Ellie, you don’t say how old you are, or if you’ve had any relationships with guys, but bringing up a new partner is always awkward - especially with family, so ...

7 November 2011

Onlyaguy Doesn't Want The Snip!

The idea of ‘the snip’ is bound to be more appealing to women, but a vasectomy is really a minor surgical procedure that you shouldn’t really worry about. If your ...

7 November 2011

Shorty’s Taking A Long Time To Get Over Her Ex

You don’t say how long you went out with each other but if you’ve shared any lengthy period of your life with someone, however old you are, it’s going to ...

7 November 2011

Asefro Knows Her Man Is Playing Games

You seem really confused, yet your gut instinct is telling you quite clearly that you think he might be telling you he loves you for the wrong reasons. Quite often, ...

7 November 2011

Sonnet Banks Is Miserable About Her Life

You have a really tough time by the sounds of it and admitting you want help is an important step forward. The fact that you’ve been away from school is ...