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15 May 2009

Angry Mum

I think it's so lovely that you want to cheer your mum up Harriet. While there is nothing specific you can do in regards to menopause little things like helping her ...

12 May 2009

Overcoming The Barriers close to you.

It's good that you can recognise with your issues over relationships but now you need to take the next step and overcome then. Forget about this man for now and ...

8 May 2009

Secretive Hubby

Your husband should be making you feel secure since you have just recently had a baby and moved to a new country but he seems to be trying to make ...

7 May 2009

My Mother The Liar

What a horrible experience you have been through and none of it is not your fault so don't believe your mother when she says that, this is all her own ...

5 May 2009

Is Our Lesbian Love Illegal?

No it is not illegal for you to be dating, but the whole situation must be unsettling for your girlfriends mum. It can be quite difficult to learn your child is ...

1 May 2009

He's A Cheat

Forget about comparing yourself to this woman, it was probably not about her personally your husband could have just been going through a difficult time. Not that I am excusing ...

1 May 2009

Text Session With Married Woman

You haven't said that you want a relationship with this woman so I'm guessing you don't and we're just in it for a bit of fun. Even if you did ...

28 April 2009

Friendly Feelings

Having feelings for a friend is always difficult territory as you risk ruining your friendship if the feelings are not reciprocated. If you tell your friend how you feel and he ...

25 April 2009

Lack Of Action

This man obviously likes you as he is taking the time to meet you but are you sure he doesn't just think of you as a friend? It's unusual for ...

16 April 2009

Bus Girl Flirts With My Hubby

You need to speak to your husband and explain how you feel. It may be that he has no idea how this girl is making you feel and is just ...

15 April 2009

Cheating Texter

You have to tell your partner you know the truth. Tell him you suspected him of cheating so texted and ask him to explain his responses. He will be mad that ...

12 April 2009

Immature Ex

You're right your ex is acting immature and proving you made the right decision by breaking up with him. I know it will be difficult but just ignore him and that ...

12 April 2009

A Younger Boy

I know it's hard not to let your friends influence your decisions but you really should do what you want to do. Just because this boy is the year below you ...

12 April 2009

Can I Move On?

Your unlucky in love past shouldn't mean you can't be happy now. If anything you owe it to yourself to get out there and meet new people to get over ...

7 April 2009

He's Making Me Miserable

You need this man out of your life, I know you feel you would be lost without him but you could end up dead if you stay with him. Tell the ...

6 April 2009

No Show Valentine

It is very odd that he didn't get in touch with you at all over Valentine's Day. It's not like your relationship is new, 10 months is quite a long ...

3 April 2009

I'm Too Controlling

I think the best thing for you to do is end things with your girlfriend. You may be in love but it is not healthy to have a relationship where ...

2 April 2009

My Brother's Best Friend

You do need to speak to your brother about this, not so much to get his permission but to make sure he feels ok about it. Boyfriends come and go but ...

24 March 2009

Gaydar?

If this man has made it clear he want sex the chances are he will say whatever it takes to get you into bed. Stay well clear of him. If you are ...

20 March 2009

Sexless Marriage

Tell your husband that you want to help him with his stress and talking about it may help too. If he opens up and discusses it, it may relieve some ...

17 March 2009

Sticking By My Beliefs

It's great to hear someone with such good morals and who is prepared to stand by them. It might not seem like fun but you have to explain your feelings to ...

14 March 2009

Looking For Love

It's terrible you feel you have a bad reputation so young but chances are it is not as bad as you imagine. People will always talk but they soon move on ...

2 March 2009

Tired and Hungry

It seems like your doctor is not taking this seriously so be persistant and keep going back. Tell him you rae not depressed and feel some test should be done to ...

1 March 2009

Distant Boyfriend

If you think the relationship is worth saving talk to you're boyfriend, ask him why these changes have happened and if he feels, like you do that there is something ...