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15 December 2008

No Orgasms

First things first, there is nothing wrong with you medically. Around 75% of women cannot orgasm by penetration alone so it is likely that your friends are exaggerating when they talk ...

15 December 2008

Friends Reunited

It is cruel to do this to your partner who has cared for you through the difficult times. Explain that while you do love him you are not in love with ...

13 December 2008

My Parent's friend

Sit your mum and dad down and ask them if they have noticed how happy you have been recently, then tell them it is because you are in a new ...

13 December 2008

I caught Dad watching Porn

It's horrible to imagine your parents as sexual beings but they are and by watching a bit of porn your father is doing nothing wrong. Your mum will probably know or ...

10 December 2008

Husband's Fling

You have to decide if you can stay with your husband after knowing this. Yes he cheated but it was a long time ago and he has not been unfaithful since. You ...

3 December 2008

Can't Live Without Him

If you told your boyfriend you wanted to split and he agreed then I'm afraid there is little you can do. It is hard but sometimes people just grow apart. Try and ...

25 November 2008

Is it his child?

If you are really sure that this child is not your boyfriends then it may be worth saving some money towards getting a DNA test. Speak to your, GP, NHS Direct ...

19 November 2008

Bad Sex Great Guy

Talk to your boyfriend but do not say it as though it's his fault. You may have just not clicked yet. remember Carrie and Berger in Sex and the City? Say to ...

16 November 2008

Threesome

I would advise against this as threesomes in relationships can bring about all sorts of insecurities. Even if you think you are ok with the idea there is bound to be ...

13 November 2008

A New Man

Why not ask him out on a date, either for coffee or a meal one evening Some men can be shy so it is up to you to bite the bullet ...

12 November 2008

The Sex Has Gone

When you do have sex if something feels uncomfortable tell your boyfriend why and change tact so your both feeling comfortable and enjoying it. You shouldn't have to give up on ...

10 November 2008

Mad About The Past

Trying, unsuccessfully for a baby can be a very stressful time and you are bound to get upset and take it out on your boyfriend. Remember though that he wants to ...

9 November 2008

Porn Problems

I think you need to sit down and have a proper chat with your boyfriend. You should tell him just how much it affects you and explain why it makes you ...

8 November 2008

Which Path Do I Take

This should not stop you doing the course that you think is better for you. Seven months is plenty of time to perhaps find another job with more hours which will ...

8 November 2008

My Best Friends Ex...

Forget this boy. If he can treat you like this then he is obviously not the right person for you. Getting involved with your friends ex is dangerous territory and no ...

6 November 2008

A Tough Choice

This is a sad situation but I think I would have to say follow your heart. Your husband is not the person you fell in love with and while it is ...

4 November 2008

My Married Boyfriend

Do you know for a fact that this woman is actively trying to make money to leave your boyfriends house? If she is all you can do is tell your ...

4 November 2008

Bad Timing

Your doctor can help. Visit them and expalin the situation and they may be able to give you medication which you take the day your period starts and it will ...

30 October 2008

Stalker

It sounds like someone is jealous of you and your relationship. Ignore the messages and change your number, don't let the person see that it is getting to you and they ...

26 October 2008

Shall I Leave?

If you truely feel unhappy in your relationship then walk away. The time when your children have grown up and left home is the time when you are supposed to be ...

25 October 2008

Dad Caught Cheating

Talk to your Dad and make it clear that you have seen what happened and he needs to tell your Mum. If you don't feel you can tell her yourself speak ...

24 October 2008

Does He Like Me

I'm afraid boys at school are normally only after one thing. They all want to look cool infront of their mates, and act as though they are all experienced and discuss ...

24 October 2008

Painful Sex

You must tell your boyfriend when he's hurting you. Sex is meant to be enjoyable so you don't want to go on like this forever. It is probably down to the ...

24 October 2008

Coming Out

Start by telling someone you're closet to, like a brother or your mum or even a close friend. Don't put pressure on your self by telling everyone at once, start with ...