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20 October 2008

Work Bonus

Firstly, you need to find out if there are any policies on relationships at work in your office, as this relationship could get you into trouble at work. You say you ...

19 October 2008

Oldest virgin In Town

Don't base all experiences on this one. Just because your ex reacted that way doesn't mean all future men will. You do not have to tell any future partners unless you ...

19 October 2008

Sex With Other Men

Who is to say what is normal and what isn't if you are both happy aand comfortable with the situation then let it continue. If you want to know why your ...

16 October 2008

Man Off Sex

The only way you will be able to get to the bottom of this problem is to talk to your boyfriend. There could be a number of factors causing his lack ...

13 October 2008

Am I Pregnant?

You can occassionally miss a withdrawal bleed, the same as how you sometimes bleed while you are still on the pill. It does not necessarily mean you are pregnant but you ...

4 October 2008

Texty Ex

He's most definately playing mind games. He wants you to wnat him back, but don't fall for it. If he acts like this when he has a new girlfriend, who's to ...

29 September 2008

Keeping It In The Family

Is there a chance that the cousin could spill the beans? Would it be better coming from you or him? Surely it would be best for you to tell the truth. If ...

28 September 2008

Text Pest

You are not been weird but your husband is been insensitive. Explain that you know about the texts, as you're friends have told you and tell him how it makes you ...

25 September 2008

Baby Or Not Baby

There is no need to rush into having a baby. If this is a real worry for you and you do not want to raise the baby alone for long ...

22 September 2008

Shall I Take Him Back?

People make mistakes but it is now up to you to decide if you can forgive that mistake. If you take your husband back you are saying that his affair has ...

21 September 2008

Sexless Marriage

Try talking to your partner. Does he know how much this his affecting you and your relationship? Cheating on him is the last thing you want to do, it will only ...

21 September 2008

Baby or Job

Your boss has no right to say that to you, as a woman you have the right to have children and a job. Speak to your HR department or if neccessary ...

17 September 2008

Gay But I Like A Man

Not everyone can be put in a category, just because you like girls doesn't mean that you can't like guys too. Maybe email him and tell him you would like to ...

16 September 2008

Left Alone

Explain how important it is to your partner. It takes people a long time to grieve and maybe he doesn't realise how much you are still hurting. Try not to blame ...

16 September 2008

Fight Night

He may be jealous that you are doing something new that he is not involved with. Talk to him about the problem and see if he thinks things have changed too. ...

15 September 2008

Why Aren't I Pregnant

Falling pregnant can take time, on average, 20% of all couples trying to get pregnant will not conceive in the first year of trying. So be patient and keep trying. You ...

14 September 2008

No Sex With The Ex

You have persevered with this relationship and you are not getting anywhere. It may be time to shut the door on it. It is a shame that things never worked out ...

12 September 2008

Forgive and Forget?

Try and find out why he cheated, and see if you can find a solution to your problem as a couple. You're husband was in the wrong but the problem may ...

11 September 2008

Betrayal

This is a massive betrayal on his part. He has completely lost all of your trust and broken the bond that was between you. However, love is a strange thing ...

10 September 2008

Proposal

Try sending him a letter, this he can read in his own time and isn't as easy to ignore as aphone call. Explain that you made a mistake and understand that ...

9 September 2008

Is There More To It?

While a GP can not talk to you about another patient they can offer general advice. It may be a good idea to talk to them about this. Also talk to your ...

9 September 2008

Solo Stallion

You're just a young red blooded male and it's perfectly natural to be horny. Ok so 12 times is a little more than the average but if you enjoyed it ...

28 August 2008

Three's A Crowd

Threesomes are nothing but trouble in my opinion. I can't tell you the amount of times I've heard from couples who have acted out their fantasies by introducing someone else ...

27 August 2008

Blowing Him Away!

I can understand why this must be really embarassed about this as it is a bit of a taboo subject- and not something you are likely to have discussed with ...