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26 February 2009

My Cousins Girl

You should definately speak to your cousin about this as he may be uncomfortable with it and you don't want to fall out with family. Also are you sure she really ...

19 February 2009

Why cant I eat?

A loss in appetite can be caused by many things including a reduction in activity levels, pain, tiredness, anxiety, depression, some medications and some illnesses. You should consult your doctor to ...

19 February 2009

I Keep Going Back To Him

It may feel like you've made a miostake but you've felt like this before and went back and the same thing happened again. It will be hard but you need to ...

17 February 2009

Is He That Into Me?

It does seem like this guy likes you as he has been making the effort to see you and text you. I'd say the only way to find out is to ...

13 February 2009

Period Problems

Periods can be very unpredictable and turn up when they're not meant to. This can happen particularly if you have been missing the gap between pills but is nothing to worry ...

10 February 2009

Distant Lover

Talk to your boyfriend and explain if he can't keep his promises of showing up on time then you can't trust him anymore. You shouldn't be with someone who you ...

7 February 2009

Can I Forget Him

This man is not worth your time, it seems as though he is not mature enough to be in a relationship. Move on with your life, you do not have to ...

5 February 2009

UK or Boyfriend?

Been with him does not neccessarily mean giving up your life, perhaps you should start with a long distance relationship and see how things go from there? If you do have ...

4 February 2009

Bullying Boyfriend

You should never stay with someone who is abusive to you. Get a family member or friend to come round and ask him to leave, or if it is his house ...

2 February 2009

Eyes Wide Open

There is no normal or abnormal when it comes to this situation, different things work for different people. If you feel you are able to then talk to him about this, ...

28 January 2009

Pregnant despite Vasectomy

Although it is rare women have become pregnant despite their partner having a vasectomy. You will not be able to put your mind at rest without taking the test so bite ...

20 January 2009

Stuck In The Middle

It is not fair on you to be dragged into the middle of disagreements between your boyfriend and your mother. Sit them both down and explain to them how hurt ...

19 January 2009

Money V Happiness

Be true to your feelings, unless you want to lead a very unhappy life. I no that money is aneasy reason to stay with someone but there is help available for ...

17 January 2009

My Older Women Feelings

This sort of thing is quite common so try not to worry. Women have crushes on other women despite not been gay or having feeling for other women. It could just be ...

14 January 2009

Lesbian Worries

First of all I would strongly disagree with making this a permanent arrangement. Your boyfriend says he is fine with it but how would you feel watching him with someone else, ...

2 January 2009

Are My Feelings Normal?

It sounds like you could be having panic attacks, particularly with your breathing problems. Panic attacks are sudden, discrete periods of intense anxiety and can last anything from 15 seconds to ...

30 December 2008

Discharge Issues

It is normal for teenage girls to have a discharge before and after they have started their periods. It is nothing to worry about and also it is no indicator to ...

28 December 2008

The Married Man

Stay away from this man while he is still married. If he loves you and wants to take care of you he can do so when he has left his wife. The ...

23 December 2008

Does He Like Me?

It sounds like this boy does like you and you should take advantage of it. If you're not brave enough to ask him out then start talking to him more and ...

20 December 2008

Internet Dating

Explain to your boyfriend that you do trust him but the situation makes you feel uncomfortable. Ask him to stop going on the sites and to take down his profile on ...

20 December 2008

Cheat

Talk to the boy and find out what is going on with hima nd the other girl. If he is still with her but likes you let him know you would ...

18 December 2008

Can I Forgive His Cheating

You both obviously want to be together so sit down and have a big talk. Explain to him how betrayed and worried you are feeling. tell him he has to prove ...

18 December 2008

In Love With My Best Friend

Now you have accepted your feelings you can move on to pursue this relationship. Go and visit your best friend in hospital; and talk to him, telling him how you feel. There ...

16 December 2008

Long Distance Troubles

Try not to feel so insecure, your boyfriend is with you because he wants to be and has no reason to cheat. Even if he is looking at porn on the ...