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17 January 2011

April's Weight issues

Anyone can develop an eating disorder, regardless of age, which you don’t mention. You are probably aware that making yourself sick after eating, in order to lose weight or because ...

16 January 2011

Louise Questions her husbands ice fetish

Two things jump out here – firstly, you still refer to sex as making love, which suggests that you love your husband and that there is still some tenderness and ...

13 January 2011

Gemma has size worries

When you say you haven’t had sex with him yet, are you still a virgin? If not, you’ll know that with some decent foreplay, and even some extra lube if ...

6 January 2011

In my twenty's and never been kissed

Don’t think badly of yourself for any of those admissions. In fact, it’s a shame that you feel you need to almost confess these as secrets. I’m sure there is ...

19 December 2010

R Barasly’s Baby Won’T Feed

Firstly, your baby girl is only three months old and so this is not unusual. It feels very demanding and worrying for you, and you are no doubt exhausted from ...

19 December 2010

Not Sure Whether She Should Dare To Bare!

Firstly, don’t worry at all about not knowing what to do, when the moment comes for you. Bear in mind that sex is one of the most natural things there ...

11 December 2010

Rachel Is being pushed out

It’s not unusual to feel envious when baby-fever spreads among your friends, especially in your mid to late 20s. And having this additional pressure on you, of feeling left out ...

9 December 2010

Shyness

Firstly, do you smile at him? A smile is a natural response when you see someone you like, and it is the ultimate gesture to show you’re interested in this ...

6 December 2010

I cannot orgasm

You are not alone Bex, and rest assured that if you can actually achieve an orgasm by yourself, with careful attention from your man, and maybe some better communication, you’ll ...

2 December 2010

Sweety - Growing pains

You seem to have a lot going on there and it’s probably fair to say that going to see your GP would be a good place to start. Who knows, ...

27 November 2010

Lesbian Feelings

You are understandably overwhelmed with all sorts of new feelings and social pressures. You are also convinced that you love this girl because you feel a closeness and clearly feel ...

20 November 2010

Sharon’s Spots Are Ruining Her Sex Life

One thing, the longer you leave it and don’t deal with this problem, the less ‘normal’ it will be to have physical closeness and intimacy, and then you will have ...

16 June 2010

Kim wants her love life back

You have experienced a lot of changes to your lifestyle so its no wonder you are as they say all over the place with your emotions. When you're ready to ...

11 March 2010

Never Been Kissed

Dont worry youve not had a boyfriend yet, your only 19 and its nothing to be ashamed of. Keep lying! Infact when you next meet a guy you like...tell him ...

5 March 2010

Whats Funny?

He is probably nervous; really don’t worry about him laughing as someone who works in comedy I often use laughter to mask feelings of insecurity. I have even been known ...

24 February 2010

Can I Trust Him?

You need to sit down with your daughter and give her a proper rollicking! How dare she, you need to tell her that is unacceptable behaviour and set some serious ...

15 January 2010

Virginity Dilemma

Zindi Hi This is any easy question to answer in reality, athough your hymen may have been broken during the medical procedure there is no doubt you are a virgin. In many ...

14 January 2010

Lesbian Desires

Its just a case of your sex life and possibley your life in general becoming routine and lacking variety. Is this something you will actually carry out or will it ...

13 January 2010

Foreplay's The Killer

You should be enjoying sexy-time with your man. Try telling him what you like, maybe he isn’t hitting the spot. In fact, its known that 99.9% of men don’t get ...

7 January 2010

Just good friends?

Don’t read anything into the text messages from him, you are just friends after all. You told him how you felt and he didn’t want a relationship with you, perhaps ...

30 May 2009

Dropped By Text

Beth Hi I am sorry to hear about your breakup. Without knowing all the facts it appears you have been totally in love with someone who unfortunately does not share your ...

27 May 2009

Dark areola

Vivian what are you thinking about using bleaching agents to lighten skin tissue in the most sensetive areas of your body. It is natural for your genital area to be darker ...

25 May 2009

Is the Grass Greener?

It's a hard situation as your friends are right the grass isn't always greener but if things are really bad could you be any unhappier? You have to have a think ...

18 May 2009

Disabled Lover

You have been together for a long time and the situation has always been as it is so, in regards to your sex life, can you not revisit the beginning ...