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26 August 2008

He Can't Trust Me

Oh dear trust issues are always tricky to get over. Your boyfriend is obviously finding it hard to trust you but that isn't your fault. It could be down to him ...

26 August 2008

Masturbation Overload?

Absolutely not! Masturbation is in fact good for your health. Not only does it help chill you out and put you in a good mood but some studies suggest it ...

24 August 2008

Can't Control My Climax

I understand why you would be worried but really there is no need. You are a young man and you have hormones racing all over the place- not to mention ...

23 August 2008

I Can't Come to Conceive

This is most likely related to the stress and pressure of trying for a baby. Sex is no longer just for fun- it has a purpose - and that can ...

23 August 2008

Spots Stressing Me Out

Good question! There are so many reccomended treatments for spots out there that it can be hard to know where to start. Although there is a home remedy I've heard ...

22 August 2008

Is My Affair Real Love?

Quite plainly- it's time to make a decision. Although you may both be happy in your affair you have to also consider the other people this affects. It's not fair ...

21 August 2008

Men Don't Turn Me On

Please check out some of our earlier answers about sexuality for reassurance- but this is a totally normal feeling that lots of women have. The truth is you could be ...

20 August 2008

My Wife Can't Orgasm

Have you tried talking to your wife about this? You need to discuss the reasons why she isn't orgasming before you can move on to sort the problem out. ...

19 August 2008

Leaking After Sex

No this wouldn't stop you conceiving at all. It is perfectly normal for some of a man's ejaculate to come back out of a woman after sex. Though some ...

15 August 2008

My Boyfriend Controls Me

Firstly what your boyfriend is doing to you at night is very wrong.....and also illegal! If he is forcing himself on you without your consent then this is rape and ...

14 August 2008

I Want To Be a Teenage Mum

Okay I'm not going to do the obvious mum thing and tell you that you're too young to have a baby....but please consider things a little more carefully before you ...

9 August 2008

Am I a Lesbian?

First things first, stop trying to label yourself as lesbian, bisexual or straight. It's not a big deal and it's not like you need to decide what you are and ...

8 August 2008

Commitment Phobia

Sometimes commitment does freak people out a bit so there is a chance that your partner made a rash decision he will regret. However he may also be sure that ...

3 August 2008

Drifting Apart

I think you've answered your own question there.....you sound thoroughly miserable and didn't once say anything good about your relationship...I think you need to seriously sit down and have a ...

27 July 2008

I Can't Orgasm!

First of all you need to relax. Everyone goes through phases where orgasm is harder to achieve. It can be anything from your stress levels to the time of the ...

26 July 2008

Will Depression Get Better?

I can assure that depression does not mean you have to live a miserable life forever. However because you have given me little detail it's hard to advise on how ...

24 July 2008

I've Got Worms

Threadworms, or Enterobius vermicularis, are small intestinal worm parasites that infect the intestines of humans. A female worm lays eggs inside the body which is what cause the itching ...

22 July 2008

Why Am I Single?

You should never think of yourself as ugly. No one is ugly and putting yourself down like that will only make you feel worse. Being the only single person ...

12 July 2008

My Man Wears Women's Swimsuits

Men and their man boobs- what are they like! They are as bad as us girls with our thunder thighs and love handles. But surely being seen in a swimsuit ...

11 July 2008

My Boyfriend Loves Porn

It can be tough to accept that you don't know everything about your boyfriend but we all have our little secrets. Looking at porn is totally natural and most men ...

22 June 2008

I feel my boyfriend doesn't like me when we watch porn together

Watching porn with your partner can be very rewarding as it can get you in the mood as well as get you to try new sexual experiences in the bedroom. ...

20 May 2008

Web Cam Blackmail

Oh dear. This boy sounds like a nightmare and what he is doing is very wrong and actuallu illegal. The chances are he's all talk and won't do anything ...

14 May 2008

Toy Boy At Work

That is a really small age gap to be worried about however relationships at work are always harder. The truth is you're doing nothing wrong and your colleagues have ...

11 May 2008

Embarassing Spots

I can't be sure exactly what it is from a description alone but the chances are you may have a sexually transmitted disease. But don't panic. Anything to do ...