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4 August 2012

I have thrush.......

Yin / Tyler You can buy tee tree oil, which has no association with thrush and no one would know what you are buying it for. It has anti bacterial properties and if ...

2 August 2012

Ellie Doesn't Like Mum's New Man

YINThis is your wedding day and you only have to have people at the top table who you want to be there – it sounds as though this guy would ...

23 July 2012

I have feelings for my best friend

Hello, Have you tried to guage this guy's feelings for you in any way? It may be easier if you knew how he felt about you for you to make ...

23 July 2012

Jane kissed a guy and now her friend will not speak to her

Hello. It sounds like he is experienceing jealousy over your kiss, but you need to ask yourself why. Could it be that he likes the idea of you being single ...

22 July 2012

Emma thinks her boyfriend is cheating on her

Hi Emma, I know its hard at the moment, there is a significant period of adjustment that you are both going through and it is important to remember that it ...

21 July 2012

Samantha has a controlling boyfriend

If you love him then you need to find out why he does not trust you, as this is what it is likely down too. Have you acted in ...

20 July 2012

Mandy feels like she is losing her friends

Hi Mandy, THe important this to remember is that there is nothing wrong with not liking the same things as everyone else, this is what makes life interesting. I ...

20 July 2012

Lauren is worried about being a virgin

Hello Lauren, Look at it another way, would you rather have had sex with one of your boyfriends, it go wrong and you regret it? Of course it is ok ...

19 July 2012

Anonymous likes her teacher

Teachers (good looking ones!) will have to expect that as their students enter a phase where they become more sexually charged and attracted to the opposite sex that they ...

19 July 2012

Has Lucy come on too strong?

Hello Lucy, Firstly, why did you miss the call? If you like this guy as much as you say you do, why did you not want to talk ...

17 July 2012

Michelle is in love with her best friend

Hello Michelle, If you love each other and you feel miserable when you are not with one another, it certianly sounds like you are both a good match. It is important ...

17 July 2012

Anonymous wants a girlfriend

Hello, It is difficult to attempt to find someone in a society where they dont really mingle. Why dont you mingle? Is it forbidden or is it frowned upon? What ...

12 July 2012

Mark is in love with his friend

Hi Mark, working on the assumption that we let our guard down when we are drunk, then she may well love you, but only has the courage to tell ...

12 July 2012

Krisha’s Guy Went Cool For No Reason

You say you chatted a lot and were always on the phone or messaging - how much time did you spend together, in person? You used to give him space ...

12 July 2012

Brittany’s ‘Boy Behind The Counter’ Crush

It’s good, if you’re single and are looking for a boyfriend, to have your ‘guy antennae’ out on full alert so that you notice when there’s some chemistry between you ...

11 July 2012

Georgia Needs Rape Defined

Georgia, you have obviously been through a devastating ordeal with this so-called friend. What you don’t explain clearly enough is whether he was successful in his attempt to have sexual ...

10 July 2012

He will hate me if i tell people we went out

It is a well known rule that boys treat those they are most attracted to worse than anyone else. It may be that he is nervous and is trying ...

9 July 2012

Rajendra Does Not Like His Wife's Legs

Hello Rajendra, Is this somthing that you have talked to your wife about? It may be worth talking it thorugh, you need to establish whether she has the same ...

26 June 2012

Betsy’s Worried She Sounds Desperate

All the signs of physical attraction were there. The fact that he had been dating someone for a month doesn’t mean he’s not attracted to you. The excuse of being ...

26 June 2012

Louise Has Lost Her Best Friend Status Since Having Sex

This is obviously upsetting you and is such a shame. You obviously went against your better judgement but thought that you were close enough to be able to deal with ...

22 June 2012

Why do i spray when i am having sex and should i do anal?

What is it about your sex life you are unhappy with? There are many ways to improve your sex life, you can dress up for one another, do role plays, ...

13 June 2012

Anonymous Feels Like A Fool Since Her Man’s Gone Cool

When a guy starts ignoring your messages, he stops contacting you and he doesn’t want to talk about where things are going, it is time to move on. It’s tempting ...

13 June 2012

Mia Feels Lonely And Zapped Of Any Motivation

This sounds really sad especially that you feel that your problems are somehow less deserving of attention than other people’s. If you lose your motivation to get a job, ...

13 June 2012

Pyar Is Scared To Death Of Her Family Seeing Her Online

When you say that you are being stalked by him do you mean online or physically? There is a difference for what kind of advice you need. If it’s online, ...