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12 April 2013

My girlfriend screams when I enter her

Yin / Tyler It sounds like you are lacking in lubrication.  If the sex is not getting any easier, it could be that you have not used enough lube, you ...

11 April 2013

I am in love but not attracted to wife anymore

Yin / Tyler This is common in a lot of couples who have been together a while where one has changed, in the partner’s opinion for the worse. Women’s bodies ...

9 April 2013

I want sex all the time!

Yin / Tyler Increased sex drive in women can start as young as in their thirties, as this is often when women are more sure of their likes and dislikes ...

7 April 2013

I have fainted twice, what is wrong with me?

This could be a good many things. I could suggest that you go on an online forum for professional advice from doctors, there are plenty of these around, if you ...

6 April 2013

I slept with a girl and I liked it .....

Have you ever had feelings this way for women before? Perhaps your attraction towards women now is because it is forbidden fruit? Being married and straight, it is something that ...

5 April 2013

Am i pregnant?

Going on and coming off the pill can be trying times on your body. If you have been on the pill for a while then it can take your body ...
4 April 2013

I am afraid to have sex with my boyfriend

Sex for the first time with your partner is always a nervous moment, however it is like anything, until you have done it you will never get over the fear. ...

3 April 2013

My boyfriend tells me about his affair while we have sex

Often after a couple have been together for a while the sex becomes less, this is normal. It is how you both react to it that matters. How do you ...
1 April 2013

I slept with my friend's fiancee

You need to ask yourself why you did this. You may have been under the influence but that does not explain all of your behaviour. Are you jealous of her ...
30 March 2013

I shave myself down there and my friend makes fun of me

It is entirely up to the individual whether you shave or not. There is no right and wrong here. Some men believe, like you, that they feel cleaner and it ...

28 March 2013

My wife no longer wants sex

When a woman reaches a certain age her hormones become unbalanced as she reaches menopause and this can have a direct effect on sex drive. Sometimes it can be the ...

27 March 2013

My wife wants me to last longer

If you are having problems lasting during sex, our resident relationship expert Cara Mason posted this last week about how to last longer, it may be worth checking this out ...

26 March 2013

My wife wants sex every day

With your wife being younger, her sex drive may be higher than yours. If you’re looking to help in that area, Viagra is a good place to start. You can ...

25 March 2013

My boyfriend wont have sex with me after 3 months!

Yin / Tyler Sex with a new person is a very nervous time. From the message you have sent it seems like you are ready to have sex with your new ...

24 March 2013

I am in love with my teacher

Yin / Tyler It is difficult to be in love with someone you don’t really know. It is more likely to be lust. You are of a similar age and he ...

21 March 2013

I think about a guy at work when I have sex with my partner

Yin / Tyler When you are with someone for a long time and it is your first lover you can become curious about other sexual encounters with other people. This ...

20 March 2013

I am attracted to my boyfriend's sisters

Yin / Tyler A lot of girls get sexual gratification from thinking about girls during sex, as a lot of girls watch girl on girl porn to get them in ...

19 March 2013

My boyfriend has threatened to kill me....

Yin / Tyler If he has a violent streak then you need to tell someone. You admit that he has already hurt you, even if I is under the pretence ...

17 March 2013

How can I stop my breasts sagging?

Pills and creams generally are a fad when it comes to things like this. Affordability is not as much of an issue as it used to be as you can ...
16 March 2013

I want to be submissive

Being spanked and being the submissive are two very different things, so it makes sense that you would not get the gratification you are seeking from the websites you are ...

15 March 2013

My boyfriend is having trouble entering me

The first time almost always hurts for everyone. When you lose your virginity you break your hymen, which is a membrane on the outer part of the vagina. When you ...

14 March 2013

My wife cheated on me

If she is seeking sex from elsewhere then perhaps she is yearning for something missing in your sex life. Have either of you made an effort over the years to ...
13 March 2013

I have started an affair

Is it you that is having the affair or is it him? Either way do you ‘get’ each other genuinely or is it because it is a taboo? A relationship ...
10 March 2013

my wife wants to let other men touch her....

When you say exhibit herself, under what circumstances and what does she exhibit? This is something that is entirely relationships to relationship specific. If you feel ok with her being ...