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8 June 2013

Can we be friends after we have broken up?

He likely didn’t tell you the day before and made the date because he couldn’t tell you the truth, as it is always hard to break up with someone. It ...
7 June 2013

He text me to say he still loves me

If you fell out of love with him and you still feel the same way then it is probably best not to reply. By replying and talking about it, you ...
6 June 2013

We argue all the time

If you fight most of the time this is not a good sign that your relationship is going anywhere. Coupled with that, you are thinking about leaving him, the signs ...

5 June 2013

He cheated on me and gave me an STI

If he has already cheated on you there is no guarantee he won’t do it again. It may be that you are only with him from fear of being alone; ...
4 June 2013

He doesn't want a long distance relationship

The only way you will find out is by asking, if you don’t you will always be wondering what might have happened and a life with regret is of no ...
3 June 2013

My boyfriend's medication gives him erectile dysfunction

The first thing you can try is Viagra; this does not increase sexual desire but simply will give your partner an erection when you are sexually aroused. It starts working ...

26 May 2013

I think he called his ex

Lucy says: If he didn’t have her number then he is likely telling the truth, Could it be that she is just trying to stir things up between you and your ...
25 May 2013

I like a guy but I don't think he fancies me back

Lucy says: Why do you think he doesn’t like you? The most attractive girls are the ones that don’t hide behind tons of makeup and hairspray. The more natural you are ...
24 May 2013

I'm stuck in a rut

 Lucy says: Firstly if you are having thoughts of being better off dead, I would suggest that you call the Samaritans helpline: 08457 90 90 90 as they can provide 24 ...

23 May 2013

My boyfriend has pictures of girls in bikinis on his phone!

Lucy says: There are a lot of instances here that are suspicious. What proof do you have that he didn’t cheat on you? Out of respect for you he should not ...
22 May 2013

I feel down

Lucy says: It sounds like you are suffering from depression, so I would suggest talking to your doctor about getting some counselling to talk about your feelings. If you can’t get ...
21 May 2013

We want to get married but he needs to ask his Dad first

Lucy says: If he loves you there should be no question about whether you get married or not. Surely if it is the difference between his son being unhappy or happy, ...
19 May 2013

My mum says I have gained weight on my bum!

Lucy says: A mother is the first point of contact for your self-esteem; if hers is low or she constantly finds things wrong with you then this can affect you for ...

18 May 2013

I'm in love with a married man.....

Lucy says: You can’t help who you fall in love with but you can help how you conduct yourself when it happens. The most important this is nothing should happen until ...
17 May 2013

She is married, should I call her?

Lucy says: Even if you can’t stop thinking about this woman, do your really want to be the person to come between a husband and a wife? If all you are ...
16 May 2013

He wont have sex with me after a year.....

Lucy says: If he believes that a couple should only be physical after marriage then he has already broken that rule, by having sex with you for the last year. Do ...

15 May 2013

She has stopped all contact, has she cheated on me?

Lucy says: Often when someone is cheating they pull away while they think about what they have done and their relationship with their current partner. It is possible that this is ...
14 May 2013

I am cheating with my ex on his current girlfriend.....

Lucy says: My advice would be to stop this now. By the lengh of this message it is clear that this got out of hand a long time ago. You got ...
13 May 2013

Will i get any good luck this year?

Hi Nabeela,  I am unable to tell you if you will have any luck in your life this year, as I can't predeict what will happen in your future. Why is ...

11 May 2013

My best friend spends more time with her boyfriend than with me

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: This is inevitable, in any new relationship unfortunately that during the honeymoon period friends and family get left out. She is consumed by a feeling that will ...
10 May 2013

I want to sleep with my boyfriend's best mate

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: By his best I presume you mean his best friend. If you are not into this guy, which it sounds as if you are not because you ...
9 May 2013

He is moving away, should I tell him how I feel?

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: You have known each other for a long time and 5 years is also a long time to have feelings for someone, so clearly it not just ...

8 May 2013

my parents don't know about my boyfriend.....

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: It is good that he is being supportive of you and your ADHD, if he didn’t care about you then he would not help you in this ...
6 May 2013

We flirt but recently it has become more

Yin / Tyler If he plays around with you like this you are bound to start and feel something more for him beacsue, minus the sex, you are doing a lot ...