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31 July 2013

I feel ill after mast***ating!

You are probably better investing in a vibrator rather than substituting your toothbrush. Although using other (safe) objects for pleasure can often be a good thing and a money saver, ...

29 July 2013

We broke up and I am not coping!

Don’t let what has happened with him or your mum taint your future relationships. You will find someone else and it’s going to be hard for a while, especially if ...
28 July 2013

I am in love with my best friends boyfriend!

It’s pretty bold of her to date your ex so it is understandable that this is hard on you. Perhaps talk to them both separately and let them know how ...
27 July 2013

I think he is messing me around

If he is not going to sleep with anyone else or date anyone else then it should be easy for him to label this a relationship. If he won’t then ...

26 July 2013

He needs money to fix his car!

It isn’t going to help the situation if you get in debt too, to your parents or on a credit card or anywhere else. If you don’t want to ask ...

25 July 2013

I never have enough money for me

Why does your partner not work? If they are able to perhaps suggest that it is all getting too much for you and you need some help. If they can’t ...

24 July 2013

I am married but still in love with him

This all boils down to one thing, are you happy with your husband without Mark in the frame? If the answer is no then this is what you need to ...

23 July 2013

I haven't had sex with my partner in a year!

Any contraceptives can affect sexual desire and it looks as though this one has for you, why not go back to your doctor and talk things through? Ask to be ...

22 July 2013

My girlfriend laughs when she orgasms

This sounds like she is a little nervous, sometimes when we are nervous, even if we don’t realize we are, it comes out in stage ways and often it is ...

20 July 2013

I'm not ready for sex

If you are not ready to have sex then don’t let that technique manipulate you, because that is exactly what he is doing. If you are ok with him telling ...

19 July 2013

He said impotence was not the reason for leaving!

I am inclined to agree with your friends. 3 failed marriages does not bode well for you, even if he did have good reasons. He does sound like a commitment ...

18 July 2013

She went back to him after our holiday romance!

If this girl is already in a relationship then I would stay well away. She had the chance to leave him for you and didn’t do it looks like she ...
14 July 2013

How can I meet a man?

Why not try dating websites? They are a great way to meet people and match your interests and likes before meeting them to see if you are compatible? You can ...
13 July 2013

I am 26 and still a virgin!

There is nothing to be ashamed about, if it has not happed for you yet then that is fine. Friends will always talk about sex, who is doing what first ...

12 July 2013

I'm afraid to use tampons!

As long as you follow the guidelines on the box and change them as often as it says then you will not be at risk. Toxic Shock Syndrome has been ...
11 July 2013

The condom ripped!

You are outside the window for the morning after pill, so go down to your local chemist and get a pregnancy test. If it comes up as negative, I would ...

10 July 2013

My neighbours keep having parties!

If you are in a rented flat, then is your contract up soon? If so try and find somewhere else to live, but ask about the neighbours first or knock ...
10 July 2013

My boyfriend was abused and can't get an erection

Clearly this abuse has affected him all of his life if he has never had a sexual partner before, so I would suggest he see a counsellor. It would seem ...

10 July 2013

My boyfriend does not like using condoms

Condoms are the safest from of contraception, however you should be fine on the pill too, just ensure you take it at the same time and use extra protection if ...

9 July 2013

Does mast***ating mean I am unhappy with my wife?

Masturbation does not mean that your relationship is not going well. It is healthy and normal to masturbate whether in a relationship or not. The only time it becomes an ...

8 July 2013

He keeps exposing himself to me

This man is not your friend, this is not how friends act around one another, nor is it a relationship, this is perversion, you need to call the police. Do ...

7 July 2013

He is still in love with her

This guy should not have entered into this relationship with you if he was still in love with this ex; it’s not fair on either of you. How much time ...

6 July 2013

He doesn't care that i'm leaving

If this guy is not willing to fight for your relationship then it would seem that you should put this to one side and look for someone who will. If ...
5 July 2013

My best friend is going out with my ex!

Have you told your friend this? It was a bold move of her to go out with him when it was your ex anyway, so unless she is in love ...