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2 January 2013

My boyfriend's ex has died......

Yin / Tyler It is natural to feel a bit of jealousy in this situation. If they do have a child together this could be a reason for him putting his ...

2 January 2013

I am texting a guy, but he has a girlfriend

Yin / Tyler It is good that you have found a connection and that he likes the same things you do. He seems very attentive to your needs when you require ...

26 November 2012

My boyfriend has blown cold with me

Yin / Tyler Hi Daisy, When we first enter into a relationship it is full of excitement and anticipation. We are overwhelmed by our feelings for another person. After a while, when ...
12 November 2012

I am a virgin.....

Yin / Tyler Hi Angela, It is important to remember that your first time will never be perfect, no matter how much porn you watch, how much you talk logistics with your ...

7 November 2012

He left me.....

Yin / Tyler Hello Diana, Without more information its hard to give any advice on this. What were the circumstances in which he left? How long has it been since he has gone? Have you ...

5 November 2012

I am pregnant and i thought i was infertile

Yin / Tyler Why have you decided not to tell anyone? Perhaps you could speak to friends and family and ask them to help you out in the situation. You will need a ...
24 October 2012

Samantha Lets Herself Get Talked Into Feeling Bad About Herself

YINWhen you say he doesn’t take care of himself, his clothes, his weight, his odour, where does the line come between you wanting him to be the perfect man and ...

24 October 2012

Elaine Wonders If She’s Had The Love Blinkers On For Too Long!

YINIt sounds as though talking about problems is not something you are able to do in your relationship – and not many relationships last if there is no culture of ...

24 October 2012

Rebecca Upset About Ex

YINYou’re obviously keen to test your feelings, to see how you’ll hold up being in close confines with this guy who hurt you. Perhaps you have no intention of letting ...

24 October 2012

Confused Doesn’t Know If She Should Take Her Man Back

YINWhatever your friends say, they only say it with care = because they don’t want to see you hurting. It’s understandable. It’s also understandable that you still get butterflies over ...

22 October 2012

I am inexperienced with sex

Yin / Tyler Hi Becci, Dont worry! Sex is something that you gain confidence with the more you do it with the same person. It is a myth that people fall ...

20 October 2012

My girlfriend keeps looking at other men

Yin / Tyler Hello there, Everyone is attracted to other people than thier partner as we a programmed this way, i am sure you find other people attractive to? Have you told her ...
16 October 2012

I still live with my ex and want to date again

Yin / Tyler Hello there, It is comon to feel like this after a break up, however despite the cliche there will be someone who will understand your situation. Everyone has baggage ...
15 October 2012

my low moods are affecting my relationship

Yin / Tyler It may be worth taking another test,  sometimes home tests can give you the wrong answer. You are certainly displaying all the signs of pregnancy and therefore just for ...
12 October 2012

I am horny and should I shave?

Yin / Tyler Hi Malinda, 1. You are at the prime age to feel this way, so there is nothing to be ashamed of. The issue is if you want to act upon ...

30 September 2012

what is the difference between sexual attraction and liking someone for who they are?

Yin / Tyler Hi Sophie, It does look like he is attracted to you. All the signs are there for sexual attraction, such as the blushing and the incident in class. There ...

26 September 2012

My husband ogles at other women!

Yin / Tyler You are right to feel upset about this as i can imagine any woman would. You should not feel that you are to blame as if the shoe ...
26 September 2012

My boyfriend likes when i give him oral sex so much he has stopped having sex with me!

Yin / Tyler You are right to want to have your sexual needs fulfilled as sex should cater for both parties. It is a bittersweet situation you have got yourself into ...

23 September 2012

I am worried what my ex will do

Yin / Tyler It sounds like you have done the right thing by leaving. You are right not to put you or your children at risk from any harm, especially if ...

19 September 2012

i am bi and want a girl with a boyfriend

Yin / Tyler If you want her to like you again, the best place to start is to apologise for what you said to her. You could explain to her your ...

30 August 2012

My wife can't climax

Yin / Tyler Have you tried foreplay first? It may be that you are rushing into the sex and not getting her wet enough or turned on enough before you enter. ...

13 August 2012

I have an itch downstairs....

Yin / Tyler Yes there is! Is there just an itch or do you also have discharge? If this is so it sounds like thrush. There are several different ways of ...

12 August 2012

Is it normal when a boy pushes knickers up inside you?

Yin / Tyler People do like many sexual practices that sometimes we are not aware of or familiar with. Was he trying to stimulate you through your knickers or was he pushing them ...

8 August 2012

my husband was having sex with another woman before he died

Yin / Tyler The time he spent with this woman was likely due to the fact he was ashamed more than wanting to cheat. He had, as you said a happy ...