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23 January 2012

Anna’s Friendship Has Turned Frisky

A really confusing situation - it’s clear that you are really in to him. You say everything that would lead me to think this, and so probably, he is also ...

23 January 2012

Laura’s Guilt Is Eating Her Alive

It sounds as though you have had your confidence knocked - your long-term boyfriend dumped you without warning, and so it’s natural that on getting back together, you have been ...

19 January 2012

Angie’s Guy Blows Hot And Cold

Yes I think you definitely need this time apart. It sounds as though he’s been using his break up to make himself seem vulnerable to you, as a way of ...

19 January 2012

Eliza Doesn’T Know How To Masturbate

Don’t worry at all, if you’re talking about having an older sister, you sound as if you’re a teenager. If you don’t know what masturbation is, it’s nothing you have ...

19 January 2012

Lina Has Never Had An Orgasm

When you say you’re not sure if you can turn yourself on, but you have never masturbated, I suggest the only way to find out is to give it a ...

19 January 2012

Jenny Thinks Her Guy’s A Commitment-Phobe

It’s always going to be dangerous territory - friends falling for each other, admitting it to each other. Someone’s always going to get hurt because for some reason, you did ...

9 January 2012

Zoovet Feels The Fight For Her Marriage Is False

Firstly, well done for achieving such a long marriage in the first place. You have been together for nearly a quarter of a century and so to think separation would ...

9 January 2012

Rob’s Wife Only Wants Him When She Takes Testosterone

Firstly, don’t take it at all personally that your wife lost her sex drive after six years of being mum. Some women never regain it after having only one baby. ...

3 January 2012

Cheryl Has An Impossible Choice

This sounds really tough on you - no one wants to hurt someone who’s already down. It shows what a nice person you are, and how he’s obviously taking you ...

3 January 2012

Dydy’s E-Boyfriend Can’t Stop E-Flirting

The trouble with meeting someone on the internet is you never know if they’re really able to switch off from it. In the same way that a regular user of ...

3 January 2012

Paula’s Partner Gave Her A Big Surprise

You’ve done the right thing. A shock like this needs time for consideration. Many couples find a way to stay together even though they’re faced with a huge change in ...

3 January 2012

Craig Thinks He’S Too Big For His Girlfriend

It’s really sweet of you to be so concerned about your girlfriend’s comfort and potential pain - and that you want your first time together to be perfect. Rest assured, height ...

3 January 2012

Dave Gets Aroused By His Girlfriend’S Sister

I’m really amazed to hear that you can actually smell your girlfriend’s sisters secretions - and I take it you’re suggesting that she is turned on by you because that’s ...

3 January 2012

Does Shannon Love Her Porn-Fan Guy Enough To Stay With Him?

It sounds as though you have a lot of history tied up in this relationship and you are elevating your boyfriend’s status because he has once been a crutch for ...

19 December 2011

Sidh Has A Size Question

Medically speaking, there’s no reason why a small penis would matter in sex. It might affect confidence and performance if you are worried about having a small penis, but that ...

19 December 2011

Maddie Wants To Come Out To Her Family

At 14, it’s still quite possible that you’re at an experimenting stage and that the way you feel now might well change. That said, how you feel might not change ...

19 December 2011

Paul Thinks He’S Paranoid About His Long-Distance Girlfriend

No wonder you’re feeling paranoid. Yes, I probably would feel very similar if I were in this situation. You don’t mention how long you’ve been together but it’s not uncommon ...

19 December 2011

Elsie Wants Her Boyfriend To Take The Lead

It’s not unusual to get two years in to a relationship, feel a bit of an itch, and want to spice things up a little - most people would probably ...

7 December 2011

Winefride’s Fed Up Of Bailing Her Guy’s Family Out

You’re being taken advantage of - you’ve tried to support your partner but he’s pushing the limits of what is acceptable to you. Even his family have taken advantage of ...

7 December 2011

Sam’s Older Man Doesn’T Keep Her Interest

There is nothing wrong with finding other men and women sexy - it’s quite common, particularly when someone’s not finding satisfaction closer to home. You don’t say how long you’ve ...

7 December 2011

Elena Is Suicidal Over Her Guy

If you really are feeling suicidal, you should seek immediate support from your GP and possibly call The Samaritans helpline (08457 90 90 90) . Feelings of desperation of this ...

7 December 2011

Samantha Wants More Under Cover Direction

This is a really difficult one - what’s he like in normal life, out of the bedroom? Is he someone you’d describe as a dominant, Alpha male? If not, it’s ...

7 December 2011

Lara Stands To Lose A Friend If She Admits To Her Feelings

In matters where friendships and feelings collide, decide at the start if you’re really prepared to lose your friend - because there’s never a guarantee that the relationship you place ...

7 December 2011

Should Annie Tell Her Guy He Can’t Kiss?

No wonder it’s causing a problem - you’re gutted, and rightly so. Always bound to be a big disappointment, the kiss is the starting point for all the other pleasures ...