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11 June 2012

Julie Wonders Why A Foot Fetish Attracts Ridicule

Foot fetishism is the most common of all fetishes associated with the body - and it can focus on the shape and size of the foot and toes, foot and ...

11 June 2012

Janie Wonders If She's Bi Or If It's Just A Girl Crush

You're obviously thinking about this constantly and are weighing things up in your head, listening to things that people have said and to viewpoints you just pick up on. You're ...

8 June 2012

Suranne Can’t Let Go

Feeling some attachment to your ex is natural. Don’t mix it up with there being a reason to stay in touch or get back with him. If you are happy ...

8 June 2012

Riya’s Guy Has Gone Distant

From what you’ve said there Riya, it doesn’t really look all that hopeful. If a guy really wants to be with you, he’ll make it obvious - you won’t have ...

8 June 2012

Sakura’s Boyfriend Can’T Cope With Her Success

He sounds like a sore loser and a selfish person all round Sakura. What is it about him that you really, really love? What does it matter if he loves ...

8 June 2012

Soha’s Mum Has Been Stripping For A Friend On Skype

It’s not fair that you are having to deal with this. However old or young you are, you are their daughter and your brother should at least step in to ...

8 June 2012

Anon Knows Her Best Friend’s Man Is Bad For Her

Not surprisingly, this is a real dilemma for you and almost an impossible situation. If you keep quiet or speak out, either way, you stand to lose your best friend. ...

21 May 2012

Lona Has Friend Troubles

Fairly standard behaviour for a catty woman, or girl, really. Don’t you think? Stay out of it - if this other girl isn’t intuitive to realise that your ‘friend’ is ...

21 May 2012

Rachel Asks If She Should Bail Out Her Grown-Up Son Again?

A very difficult situation for any mother - but in refusing to help your son, you truly believe that you are helping him in the long run. Even if it ...

21 May 2012

Louisa Is In A Love Triangle

What are you more concerned about here - your boyfriend ‘sexting’ your friend (some friend, she is), your relationship with your boyfriend’s parents or the decision you have to make ...

17 May 2012

Suzanne Can’t Live With Him And Can’t Live Without Him

For your own sake, stick to your guns. You’ve made the brave decision to split and for good reasons - if only more people were strong enough to recognise when ...

17 May 2012

Sydney Let Her Dream Boy Go

You clearly have strong feelings for this boy, and yes, maybe you are in love, but in all honesty, that doesn’t mean you should feel you have to act on ...

17 May 2012

Hannah’s Friend Dumped Her With A Poem

This sounds like a complete nightmare Hannah - but something really jumped out at me and that is that right at the start of your letter, you referred to this ...

9 May 2012

Anonymous Blames Ex’s Mum For Being Dumped

Oh you really have been through it with him haven’t you - and it’s such a shame that he’s obviously so influenced by his mother’s values, but to be honest, ...

8 May 2012

Anonymous Confused By Guy

Is this happening at work, or out and about? I would be careful about responding, depending on the circumstances. At face value, it suggests that he fancies you and wants ...

8 May 2012

Charlotte Is Living Her Life Through Her Need To Get Her Guy

A volatile musician, hey. You aren’t the first to put up with this kind of temperament and you won’t be the last - as long as there are guys, girls ...

8 May 2012

Jodie Is Totally Confused By Her Guy

It sounds like a really confusing situation for you - you started off by having a bit of fun, then you let your guard down with him and let him ...

8 May 2012

Jordan Can’t Stop Texting And Chasing

It sounds to me as if he’s just not up for a relationship or any hint of commitment. He’s tried to spell it out for you but you haven’t taken ...

4 May 2012

Soha Is Traumatized By His Mum’s Skype Affair

This is a truly awful situation to be in Soha. You really didn’t want to discover this, and obviously weren’t trying to find something bad - so none of this ...

4 May 2012

Anne Feels Left Out Of Family Holiday Plans

This seems very out of the blue and unusual for you then - so no wonder you are feeling jealous and excluded. But is there a special reason? Does your ...

27 April 2012

Lauren’s Boyfriend Has Gone Manic

Bipolar, or Mania, is a severe mental health illness, sometimes known as manic depression. Does your boyfriend have significant mood swings, including manic highs and depressive lows? Anyone can develop ...

27 April 2012

Anonymous Is Annoyed With Her Life!

You’re annoyed about all sorts of things here but one thing lies at the heart of it - your self-esteem and confidence have taken a knock, because of the way ...

27 April 2012

Olivia’s Getting Mixed Messages

Hi Olivia, I’m really sorry to say it but it sounds like one you should just let slip past you and don’t dwell on it too much. You’ve had plenty ...

16 April 2012

Chelsy Unsure About Marriage

Chelsy, this sounds like a desperate situation. You are clearly upset and have really had your confidence hit by his behaviour - not surprising is it. If you were a ...