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5 May 2013

My daughter's boyfriend won't make the effort

Yin / Tyler Long distance is always going to be difficult. If he is not making the time for her over msn or Skype he is not very committed to ...
4 May 2013

I need constant attention

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: Although it is a hard lesson to learn, if you are trying this hard to make friends and keep friends they are probably not the right people ...

4 May 2013

I like a guy but he is texting my friend

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: It is good that you were both honest right away and admitted that you liked one another, however if he says he will hurt you this is ...

3 May 2013

I sent my daughter's ex naked pictures of myself

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: The fact that this is your daughters ex proves to be the first problem, if you start anything up with this guy then it will affect ...

2 May 2013

My husband watched porn with his ex!

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: Sometimes when you trust someone, they can throw you off course with something you didn’t know about them before they get with you. The fact that she ...

1 May 2013

I am in love, but i have not dated him

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: Firstly you can’t be in love with someone you have not been with romantically. Love is based on a lot of things, friendship, mutual attraction and compatibility, ...
30 April 2013

He makes me feel worthless

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: Relationships can go stagnant after a year or so and this is the point where things are not seen through rose tinted glasses, however the best ...
29 April 2013

Does he fancy me?

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: If you can engage in healthy conversation with this guy then there is a spark. Prolonged eye contact is usually a sign that someone is attracted ...
28 April 2013

I want to leave but we can't afford to move out

Yin / Tyler  Lucy says: If you have not had sex in one and half years then there is a problem. Time for sex comes and goes in a relationship depending on ...

27 April 2013

I want to find Bigfoot!

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: Everyone has a passion or something that they are a little ashamed of, a guilty pleasure. If this is yours don’t fight it! You can try going ...

26 April 2013

I have fallen out of love with my man

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: When a relationship breaks down one or both will get hurt, it is inevitable. Yes you shouldn’t be kissing work guys behind his back but if ...
25 April 2013

Should I ask him out??

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: Falling for a flatmate is usually a recipe for disaster as you do have to live with one another regardless of what goes on. If he ...
23 April 2013

The father of my baby blows hot and cold

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: Exactly like that! You are the mother of this baby and if he is not showing any interest now, what makes you think he will in ...
22 April 2013

It's supposed to be friends with benefits

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: It is often the case that people with a ‘friends with benefits’ relationship, end up with one having feelings for the other. The trouble is we ...
21 April 2013

I get really wet during sex

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: It could be you or it could be him, it is difficult to know. If you are not using a condom it is hard to find ...

20 April 2013

Will he cheat on my daughter?

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: It is right for you to be protective of her and yes there are some things that go unsaid that we just  do and don’t do ...
19 April 2013

I am not happy with my boyfriend anymore

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: Often sadness can bring people closer together and make us feel things we wouldn’t normally. Perhaps you got your close feelings of friendship mixed up with ...

18 April 2013

Should I tell him i'm pregnant?

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: People often stay together for the sake of the children, which is noble, but surely the example you would want to set for your children is to ...
17 April 2013

I had unprotected sex

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: Firstly, if you have had a period then, it is likely that you are not pregnant. When you were late that would have been the time ...
16 April 2013

I almost cheated on my boyfriend, should I tell?

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: If you were going in to kiss this guy then, you may have a problem staying faithful, as the intention was there, however you didn’t really do ...
16 April 2013

I don't want to leave my girlfriend or my home

Yin / Tyler Lucy Says: This does sound like a difficult situation that you are in. Relationships are hard at the best of times but even harder when they are long ...

15 April 2013

My boyfriend wants me to lose weight

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: Firstly, congratulations for getting through, even if mild, eating disorder symptoms, a lot of people who suffer from these types of symptoms can take years and ...
14 April 2013

I have a friend with benefits, is this normal?

Yin / Tyler Lucy says: So are you saying that you make out in front of your brother? Given your age and your boyfriend’s age, is this an example you want ...
13 April 2013

I am worried about my weight

Yin / Tyler ~165lbs: For our readers who use stones and pounds this equates to about 11 and a half stone. ~   Most exercise takes about six weeks to kick in ...