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22 December 2013

My friends disapprove of my boyfriend

Hi India, Your friends are likely jealous that you have a boyfriend. When one in the group begins to date, it can make the others feel uncomfortable so they will pick ...
21 December 2013

He hasn't replied to my messages!

Hi Anita, If he cancelled on you when meeting up then it may have been because of a genuine excuse or it could be that he is not all he says ...
21 December 2013

I'm tired of being afraid!

Hi Becca, You are clearly worried about making friends again after being hurt by the girls from school, this is understandable and placing your trust in someone so soon can be ...
20 December 2013

He didn't turn up!

Hi Sophia, It sounds like he liked the idea of you and him when you could have an open relationship but as soon as you told him that is not what ...
20 December 2013

I don't know where I stand!

Hi Vicky, A conversation about where the relationship is going can be a daunting prospect, especially if you haven’t been together for that long, however it’s a valid one. Both men ...
20 December 2013

He says he wants me back!

Hi Penny, It is likely that your ex came back because he was jealous to see you with someone else. Break ups are usually manageable until one of you gets another ...
19 December 2013

I want to break up with him!

Hi Louise, It is unfair to go out with someone when you just don’t feel the same. No-one likes to break up with someone whether they have a disorder or not. ...
19 December 2013

He seems so uninterested!

Hi C, If you are in a relationship with someone long distance, things like Skyping mean a lot. Facebook is sometimes not enough as you can’t see the other person or ...
19 December 2013

I get a burning sensation after sex!

Hi Sophi, There might be several things causing this. You might have bacterial vaginosis, which is caused by the normal bacteria growing in your vagina to become too high. If your ...
18 December 2013

We're an almost couple!

Hi Ruth,   There should be some form of physical attraction in your relationship especially to begin with. If that is not there and you are worried about sleeping with him because ...
18 December 2013

I've just had an argument with my boyfriend!

Hi Anna, Money can cause a lot of friction in relationships- usually about not having enough or spending habits of the man or woman in the couple. It is good that you ...
18 December 2013

I've turned into a horrible person

Hi Bethanne,   Break ups can cause a lot of unpredictable behaviours so a lot of it may be down to the fact that he was hurt and retaliated in the only ...
17 December 2013

He asked me out but now I like him back!

Hi Laura,   It sounds like you are both mixed up about your feelings right now. If you didn’t like him but now you do and he liked you but now doesn’t, ...
17 December 2013

She's too controlling!

Dear Anonymous,   Couples can and do exist with their friends and their partners in their lives. You should not have to give up either. The likelihood is that she is being ...
16 December 2013

He wants an open relationship!

Hi Tamsin,    If you don’t feel comfortable with it then tell him. If you go along with it to please him then you will always be unhappy in the relationship and ...
16 December 2013

I fell for my best friend and he cheated on me

Hi Mamon,   You were vulnerable and to an extent he may have taken advantage of that. If he wanted you at the time, telling you that your ex was no good ...
16 December 2013

He's still single on the dating website!

Hi Beth,   Some people are more private than others and that is something that you perhaps need to respect when in a relationship with someone who is this way inclined. He ...
15 December 2013

He doesn't want to marry me

Hi Jennifer, If you've only been together for a year I wouldn't panic just yet, a lot of men have issues when it comes to thinking about marriage, especially if you ...
15 December 2013

He said he wanted to but couldn't......

Hi Angelina, thanks for getting in touch. Perhaps try talking to him about it. There are not many men that stop just as they are about to a have sex without ...
15 December 2013

I'm not sure if I want a threesome

Hi Max, thanks for getting in touch.   If you both fell jealous at the thought of having another man or woman in your bed, then it sounds like it might not ...
14 December 2013

I get so stressed about things

Hi Wendy thanks for getting in touch. It sounds like you need some help with things. Do you have a friend or family member that could help you out? By ‘us’ ...
14 December 2013

He tells me it's fate that brings us back together!

Hi Imarah, He will be more mature than you remember, because a lot of time has passed, so you may find him mature for his age but had you met him ...
13 December 2013

I slept with my ex and now i'm pregnant!

Hi Sophie, thanks for getting in touch. If you were the one being cheated on what would you want? Would you want to know if your fiancé had cheated on you ...
13 December 2013

I've been in love with him for five years!

Hi there, thanks for getting in touch! It may have been that long that you are in the friend zone and the love he has for you is platonic, which is ...