Hi Nigel, thanks for getting in touch.
It could be that getting off with her has dragged up old memories of familiarity and comfort which has made you have feelings once ...
Hi Sohail, thanks for getting in touch.
As a woman, I am the first to admit that we can be indecisive sometimes. There could be several things going on here- she ...
Hi Charlie, thanks for writing in.
You should not have to choose between either of them. It is as you say understandable that your mum was upset, as she didn’t know ...
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If his father has just passed then he may need some local help with this. You can only do so much from afar, so ...
Hi Sophie, thanks for getting in touch.
The trouble with text messages are that you can’t gauge people’s reactions so your words and actions. If he didn’t care then he would ...
Hi JB thanks for getting in touch.
The important thing to remember is that you are in control of your actions, so if you are feeling like this could lead somewhere ...
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You are engaged and he is married, so by making any moves you will be break up two families. Perhaps the dream has just put ...
Hi Sally, thanks for getting in touch.
If you are not comfortable with this then show your concerns. If the roles were reversed how would he feel about your doing this? ...
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If she doesn’t want to be your mistress, there is nothing I can do to change her mind. If you mean instead of your ...
Hi Laura, thanks for getting in touch.
Often our paranoia arises from our own guilt of doing the very thing that we are accusing someone else of. By accusing you of ...
Hi Vanessa, thanks for getting in touch.
One Night Stand sights are probably not a good idea and likely something that you will regret. Sex is something that is pressured onto ...
The only way you will find out is to ask him out for a date. Hearsay from your friends is clearly confusing things and making you both uncomfortable- if you ...
People gravitate towards people who are secure and confident. Insecurity unfortunately is not an attractive option. If you are constantly comparing yourself to her and feeling less than, this will ...
Hi Dawn, thanks for getting in touch.
Hate is a very strong word and usually one that is used on the heat of the moment. If you hate someone you often ...
‘Breaks’ are very ambiguous things as those couples that take them very often don’t set boundaries as to what are and aren’t acceptable things to do while you are parted. ...
Hi Bill, thanks for getting in touch.
Women respond well to romance, which often will follow on to sex when they feel sufficiently pursued. Why not take her out for a ...
If your daughter finds out about this you could jeopardise what you have with her, by continuing with the sexting and the flirting, you are seriously putting your relationship with ...
HI Kim, thanks for getting in touch.
The fact that you have written in asking this perhaps means that you may have questions about your own self-worth. Your self-esteem should not ...
It sounds like he might have been saying those things to sleep with you. Men and women can be very manipulative when sex is on the table and say whatever ...
Hi Grainne, thanks for getting in touch.
Carrying on when you don’t want to be with someone is worse than biting the bullet and dumping them, because the longer you are ...
Hi Jenny, thanks for getting in touch.
It sounds like he may still be keeping you at a distance because he has not got over the loss. Perhaps suggest that he ...
Asking her for them might not be the best approach but talking to her about the benefits of having them scattered so you can visit as a family, might be ...