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30 December 2013

I don't miss him when he's not there

Hi Natalie,   Perhaps, although it was an awful situation to be in, that is was for the best. If him moving out has made you realise how much you can exist ...
30 December 2013

Does he like me?

Hi Freddie,   Often men show their affections for someone by ignoring them or teasing them. It’s  game that starts in the school playground when there are boys who have crushes on ...
30 December 2013

Do I love my boyfriend?

Hi Bee,   If you take your friend out of the equation, are you happy with your boyfriend? Although having someone who treats you well is a wonderful quality to have in ...
29 December 2013

He keeps cancelling on me!

Hi Vix,   It may be that he is not who he says he is, a few years older for example. The trouble with dating websites is sometimes you don’t know who ...
29 December 2013

Does he want to have it all?

Hi Hannah,   If you were to make this situation simple- if he wanted to be with you that much- he would end things with his girlfriend. No-one is denying that breaking ...
28 December 2013

If I ask him out am I desperate?

Hi Eve, There is nothing desperate in asking a boy out. Gone are the days where it is the men that do all the asking. Women are starting to take charge ...
28 December 2013

My partner said I'm ok to flirt with other men!

Hi Sarah, There is nothing wrong with a bit of harmless flirtation, as long as there is no intention behind it or it gets so graphic the recipient believes that something ...
27 December 2013

Do I keep trying with him?

Hi Yasmin, I would suggest that you enrol in some couples counselling if you are having trouble trying to deal with this on your own. Being a couple is difficult enough ...
27 December 2013

Unemployed and single- help!

Hi Paula, In terms of the first question, it’s all about making the most of while you are not at work- volunteering your skills somewhere to demonstrate that you don’t like ...
27 December 2013

Is he just using me?

Hi Roms, Usually, people who love two people have a preference for one over the other, it is impossible to love two people equally in a romantic relationship. The odds are ...
26 December 2013

I feel alone and have no-one

Hello Anonymous, Moving to a new place is always hard and takes time to adjust to your new surroundings and new people. Siblings and step siblings are always going to have ...
26 December 2013

He told me he was a virgin!

  Hi Cathy, What would you have thought of him if he had come clean right away? If he had treated you the same, would this have made you feel less affection ...
26 December 2013

He hasn't called in three days!

Hi Lola, If he hasn’t made the effort to call why not get in touch with him? If you don’t and he leaves it another few days you will be left ...
25 December 2013

He tells me he has feelings for me again!

Hi Tamara, If you are both confused then this is not a great basis for a relationship. If he told you that his feelings are strong then it may be that ...
25 December 2013

I'm concerned about my colleague

Hi Louise, A half anyone, whether it is a nephew, niece, brother or sister, is still classed as family and is still a family member. Incest is defined as sexual activity ...
25 December 2013

I've been told I come on too strong

Hi Georgina, The first thing I would suggest is joining a forum with other people who have gone through what you have so you can glean some advice on how to ...
24 December 2013

I'm falling in love with someone online

Hi Ray, Online relationships are tricky, you can certainly create a significant connection over email with someone as you talk about your common interests and feelings, but if you haven’t met, ...
24 December 2013

I've just found out my boyfriend was unfaithful

Hi Shirley, When someone does something wrong they often shift he focus onto their partner and make out that it was they behaviour that pushed them away. Both people need to ...
24 December 2013

Is it ok for my husband to kiss another woman?

Hi Janette, If this is not something that is commonplace in your marriage, then probably not. Firstly is it not really the right etiquette to kiss a recently widowed woman on ...
23 December 2013

I'm worried i'm not getting the most out of University!

Hi Anonymous, University is whatever you want it to be. It is a place where you should not feel like you have to go with the crowd anymore like in school ...
23 December 2013

He didn't tell me about the other girls!

Hi Amy, If you were seeing each other casually, then chances are he just assumed that this was acceptable. Many relationships today are open ones, so couples need to define their ...
23 December 2013

I fancy by friend but he doesn't know!

Hi Tyler, The simple fact is if you don’t tell him he will never know and you will always be left wondering- ‘what if?’ If it is mere attraction and not ...
22 December 2013

I'm not sure if I like a guy or not!

Hi Anonymous, When we date someone we have to take them, both the good and the bad, so if he is not as intelligent as you would like him to be ...
22 December 2013

What's the difference between a dom and a bully?

Hi Jaime, You have answered the question yourself- ‘who has agreed to partake….’ A bully uses dominance as means of affecting someone’s confidence and making the victim feel like they don’t have ...