It may be that he feels he can’t talk about this with you- do you ever talk about sex generally or between you as husband and wife?
It is healthy to ...
Hi Amy,
University puts a lot of pressure on existing couples, even those who are doing great. Perhaps it is just the physical affection you are missing and the company, which ...
Hi Stace,
Firstly, you are setting yourself up to fail if you compare yourself to people in films and magazines. These artists have been airbrushed and photo-shopped so they are the ...
Hi Melanie,
Periods can start at any age from before your begin your teens to well into them, as late as 16. It sounds like your body is going through all ...
Hi John,
Firstly why do you think it’s not good enough if it’s above average? Was it a partner who might have contributed to this insecurity? Most men would be happy ...
Hi Mike,
The decision is yours- whatever you feel comfortable with and what your gut tells you to do.
It may be fast, however if you were not emotionally invested in the ...
Hi Jasi,
Most women don’t experience orgasm with their partners inside them. It doesn’t mean that there is a problem with either of you. It’s simply down to the way women ...
Hi Shelly,
You got off to a bad start- many people do. It’s what you do moving forward that counts, to show him that first impressions were bad and things were ...
Hi Emily,
It is perfectly normal to have regrets- everyone does- it is important to take those things that we are not proud of and learn form them so we don’t ...
Hi Anonymous,
That is ok, you don’t need a question, it’s a really positive step that you have been able to put your feelings down and share them. You could be ...
Hi Fiona,
We all make choices that others don’t agree with and often it’s family members who feel they are close enough to be able to speak their mind.
Given that you ...
Hi Declan,
If she won’t say the words then perhaps it’s down to you to. If you think the relationship is over then maybe she simply doesn’t want to be the ...
Hi Emilia,
He has waited until you are single to ask you this, so perhaps he has been waiting for his opportunity to give things another try? More importantly would you ...
Hi Amber,
There is a worry here that if things did progress between you both that you could get swept up in all of this. I don’t mean necessarily that you ...
Hi Lucy,
If you are in your first serious relationship does this mean that he is too? It sounds like he is perhaps inexperienced and a little forward about taking your ...
Hi Angela,
You have come to terms and found the understanding when for he watches porn. A lot of women could not find it in themselves to accept this, so the ...
Hi Anonymous,
It sounds like you are dealing with two separate issues here that are causing the same outcome. If you haven't talked about it then perhaps it’s time to. It ...
Hi Alyce,
If you don’t want to know him anymore then perhaps simply ignore the messages- he will soon get bored. You already know that he only wants something casual and ...
Hi Sammy,
If you feel things are going well in the relationship then it is good that he also thinks enough about you to talk about the future. Despite it being ...
Hi Lianne,
Break ups are confusing times. Your head tells you one thing and your heart tells you another. We are all programmed to be with someone from a very young ...
Hi Claire,
Trying to find tools to help move on could be the right thing for you right now. Getting out with your mates, finding a hobby, organise some time with ...
Hi Sarah,
There is a fear in a lot of people after having children that they will lose who they were before and the life they had with their partner. Chances ...
Hi Kalla,
Your body is going through a tremendous amount of change right now. Your hormones will be all over the place which is likely responsible for making you feel so ...
