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4 December 2013

How can I make my boobs perkier?

Hi Vini, thanks for getting in touch. Being self-conscious about your breasts is something that a lot of women feel and although there are no exercises to change the breast tissue ...
4 December 2013

Should I wait for him?

Hi Sue, thanks for getting in touch. Being with someone who is not over their ex is setting yourself up for pain. Even if they are making steps to get over ...
4 December 2013

He doesn't want to commit!

Hi Holly, thanks for getting in touch. 15 years is a long time to place your trust in someone only to have it taken away. It may be that he just ...
3 December 2013

Is he punishing me?

Hi Cynth, thanks for getting in touch! It is natural that you have reacted negatively to this situation as you have had not only the pain of break up as well ...
3 December 2013

I still love him

Hi Beth, thanks for getting in touch. How long have you been broken up for? Love can last beyond a break up even if it was a bad one so be ...
3 December 2013

Can I trust my wife not to have sex with him?

Hi Mark, thanks for getting in touch. Whether your wife has been unfaithful or not, leading a man to think he has a chance with her is practically there. There is ...
2 December 2013

Am I pregnant?

Hi Ann, thanks for getting in touch. If you had unprotected sex then I would suggest that you take pregnancy test, or make an appointment at the doctor to get checked ...
2 December 2013

My boyfriend is defensive

Hi Amelia, thanks for getting in touch. Long distance relationships are always going to require a bit of adjustment as you learn how to maintain your relationship from afar. This can ...
1 December 2013

My boyfriend wants to marry- my parents disapprove

Hi Anne, thanks for getting in touch. Legal marriageable age is 18, so whether your partner wants to get married or not, he is not legally allowed and neither are you. ...
1 December 2013

I fancy a guy but i'm too scared to ask him out!

Hi Maud, thanks for getting in touch! Why not ask him out as a friend to the cinema or out for tea? If you are on your own away from all ...
1 December 2013

My ex still loves me!

Hi Sam,   If you have not been broken up for long then love can still be present after a split, so bear in mind that you do need time to get ...
1 December 2013

Do I hurt because I had feelings for him?

Hi Britney, thanks for getting in touch. It will hurt if you lost a friend that you were very close to; it could hurt just as much as if you had ...
30 November 2013

He married another woman!

Hi Sana, thanks for getting in touch. Is this a one sided love? Do you know if he loves you back? If he is happily married then its down to you ...
29 November 2013

He said he wont support me or see our son

Hi Mary, thanks for getting in touch,  If you are serious about being on your own there are several things to consider. Firstly, you could get a house share, it’s not ...
29 November 2013

I have feelings for my best friend

Hi P, thanks for getting in touch. Drunkenness is an opportunity for us to say how we really feel without worrying about the consequences, not an opportunity to lie. If she ...
29 November 2013

I slept with my best friend

  Hi Laura, thanks for getting in touch. If you have slept with someone else, this could be an indicator that things are not going well with your boyfriend. If you have ...
28 November 2013

He said he just wants to be friends

Hi Mia, thanks for getting in touch. If he needs to take time out to help with his mum, then I’m afraid you may have to wait for him, or move ...
28 November 2013

I need help talking dirty to my boyfriend

Hi Tamela, thanks for getting in touch. If you haven’t done this at all already then don’t go all in with a barrage of dirty talk, I would suggest doing it ...

28 November 2013

Should I withhold sex?

Do whatever feels comfortable for you when you see him. If you want to reconnect first and go out and do something or cuddle up and watch a movie then ...
27 November 2013

I've fallen in love with my best freind

Hi Jack, thanks for getting in touch.   You might think that he is no good, however, if she thinks the opposite then you will have to wait for her to decide ...
27 November 2013

He kissed me- should I tell my boyfriend?

Hi Kelly, thanks for getting in touch. If you keep it from him and he finds out, he may think that you are actually hiding something. What if the guy tells ...
27 November 2013

I dreamt about my ex last night!

Hi Jeny, thanks for getting in touch.  There is nothing wrong with thinking or talking about a man from your past. It is your history; you are entitled to draw on ...
26 November 2013

My boyfriend is distant and shady!

Hi Shannon, thanks for getting in touch.   Communication is key in any relationship, playing games only gets you so far and can complicate things further. If he is still texting and ...
26 November 2013

He wrote me a letter wanting to know why

Hi Jade, thanks for getting in touch.   Break ups are incredibly hard, especially after you have been together so long. A month is not that long in the scheme of things ...