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5 November 2013

He won't talk to me after what happened!

Hi Emily, thanks for writing in. Perhaps the reason you want more from Sam now is because you kissed, you didn’t say that you had feelings for him before, only the ...
4 November 2013

We are childhood sweethearts- will we survive?

Hi Rachel thanks for writing in.   Every relationship is unique and the temptation is often to compare to others. If you were to ignore all the outside factors, your friends, the ...
4 November 2013

I moved for him but he won't do the same

Hi Ellen thanks for writing in,   Relationships are about compromise- you moved to be with him because of his studies, so he should be a little more accommodating when it comes ...
1 November 2013

Am I too young for my age?

Sexual attraction can come over people at varying ages, so there is nothing to worry about. If you a have a strong friendship and family relationships then sometimes there is ...
1 November 2013

He's neglected me for his studies!

If he is passionate about passing his exams and getting good grades then I would leave him to approach you. If you interrupt him while he is focused then he ...
1 November 2013

We broke up and then slept together

You and him broke up for a reason and those reasons will still be there is you get back together. Sleeping with your ex always complicates things and this situation ...
31 October 2013

He can't be happy for me!

There is nothing wrong with wanting your friends to want the best for you. Friends are rarely on a par with their achievements. Being happy for someone when you are ...
31 October 2013

He is acting jealous!

If he treated you badly while you were together, then things likely wouldn't change if you went back to being a couple again. Habits like that are hard to break, ...
30 October 2013

He likes the girl I hate

Unfortunately we can’t predict who we are attracted to and just because you are attracted to him doesn’t mean that he will stop liking the person who you 'hate'.  ...
30 October 2013

How can I tell how he feels?

Why not suggest going out with him on your own to get coffee or out for tea? That is a message that you want to spend time with him on ...
30 October 2013

I like him as a friend

If he already knows that his friend has a crush on you and you have been giving signs back to indicate that you like him too, he has probably already ...
29 October 2013

Am I too clingy?

Hi Holly thanks for writing in.   When someone pays you a compliment it stays with you much like an insult does. It is great that in that two hour period you ...
29 October 2013

Does he mean it?

Guys can be quite manipulative when it comes to sex; he has managed to get through six years without any commitment from you and now he has you wondering over ...
28 October 2013

He thinks we're enough for each other

As long as you are not cheating on him then seeing your friends and having time without him is a healthy thing. The strongest couples are those who are able ...
28 October 2013

I kissed my boyfriend's cousin!

Perhaps the reason why you can’t get him out of your head is because things have been not so good with your boyfriend recently. It is tempting to look around ...
28 October 2013

My friend is abroad, should I be her boyfriend's sex buddy?

It is good that you get on with your friends partner, but there is getting on too well with him. If you start something up with him, you can say ...
24 October 2013

He tells me that it's all my fault!

Long distance relationships are down to effort on each of you parts. It is what we do often that demonstrates how we feel about someone more than what we say ...
24 October 2013

I like to dress up as a woman

Dressing up as a woman can be a shock, especially if you have never done it before; think how you would feel if your wife began dressing like a man ...
24 October 2013

We argue all the time!

Some couples thrive on a bit of friction to keep the flame alive, however if your fights are regular and about big issues then it could be that you are ...
23 October 2013

What is my next move?

Hi Tom, thanks for writing in.   If you still have feelings for this girl why did you break it off? Break ups are hard if you still see your ex and ...
23 October 2013

I'm shy and worry that I wont find the one

Hi Carlista, thanks for writing in. There is nothing to be ashamed here. You will have experienced things that they haven’t, just as they have experienced things that you haven’t. The ...
22 October 2013

A random guy kissed me, should I tell my boyfriend?

As long as you can say that while you were talking to him that you weren’t flirting or giving him the wrong signals then you have done nothing wrong. There ...
22 October 2013

My husband can't save money- should I leave him?

Leaving someone because they can’t save money seems a little extreme. Money is not everything, however you always need some in reserve in case something goes wrong with your car ...
21 October 2013

I gave him my number but he hasn't called!

He is displaying signs of attraction towards you, especially when he is going out of his way to see you and talk to you.  ...