Hi Kristy,
A year is not long to be together and if you are already worried about trust issues then it might be sign that you need to get out before ...
Hi Lauren,
Why not just text him and start up a friendship? It might be that he is too nervous to talk to you since everything that has happened. If you ...
Hi Lizzie,
A year is a long time to like someone and not find out if the feelings are reciprocated. You owe it to yourself to find out either way. Why ...
Hi Faith,
Everyone has a chance in life, but sometimes you need a little help to be able to see it.
Firstly, money is not everything, you need it to pay the ...
Hi Lola,
Although you don’t want to hurt your friend’s feelings, chances are you will find someone sooner or later and have to have this conversation- there is no time like ...
Hi Christine,
Since you have not been seeing each other for long it may be that he had plans which he made before you met up. However generally in the first ...
Hi Beverly,
Although in the current climate, money sounds like it should be a priority- it is not the foundation of a healthy relationship on its own. Financial security can ease ...
Hi Courtney,
The important thing to remember is that your mum had all of the worries and questions that you have today when she was young, so very little will likely ...
Hi Dhruv,
Relationship maintenance is all about having a good foundation- if you are friends before anything else then you have a lot to work with. Having that friendship means that ...
Hi Chloe,
I would strongly suggest that you go to the doctors- they won’t judge you or laugh at you because this is a very common problem now- especially in young ...
Hi Nancy,
A romantic relationship is often sexual; that is what sets it apart from a friendship. That said many couples still live happily together with little or no sex. The ...
Hi Sarah,
Often people who are addicted to sex have insecurity or a void and try to fill it with attention from the opposite sex. How do you feel about yourself ...
Hello Anonymous,
If you don’t want to break up with him then perhaps suggest that he come over and talk to your Dad. You are expected to stick up for him ...
Hi Hattie,
We all make mistakes- it’s what we do after them which defines us more. Mistakes can be made in the heat of the moment- we say things we don’t ...
Hi Catherine,
If you are intent on not being friends with her anymore then perhaps talk to her. Tell her that you are different people now and have come to a ...
Hi Claudia,
Being popular is not the be all and end all. It can often result in attracting the wrong kind of boy.
Perhaps you are focusing on the popular guys to ...
Hi Sipokazi,
A few drinks can act as a confidence booster and encourage people to be less uptight about their sex life; however alcohol in large amounts can impair his sexual ...
Hi Kelsey,
Although this might be quite irritating- it’s possibly a form of flattery. She may be unsure of who she feels she should like and is taking pointers from you ...
Hello Confused,
Your friends and family know you best and are looking out for you- any bad treatment and they will be very protective of you- so try and be mindful ...
Hi Sam,
A common problem in many men is erectile dysfunction whereby a man can’t develop or maintain an erection during sex. There are several things that can be done to ...
Hi Brenda,
The important thing is distraction right now- go out with your friends, see your family (that is what they are there for), start a class or get a hobby. ...
Hi Grace,
Firstly you are not pathetic, you simply haven’t had any closure- the reason you are probably finding it so hard to get over is because you broke it off ...