Hi Dele,
It sounds like you have given this relationship a lot of your time and commitment for your children’s sake; however after so long if you are still not feeling ...
Hi Emma,
The housing market is truly difficult now for younger people looking to get a place of their own.
Have you looked into stepping onto the ladder with a friend? Do ...
Hi Sarah,
Perhaps you gravitate back towards one another because you have all that past. If you were together from a very young age then maybe it’s the history that brings ...
Hi Confused,
If the only thing holding her back is the money are you able to support both of you on your wage?
If she has already told him that she ...
Hi Kizzer,
When people won’t listen- often what a lot of people find effective is a letter. Perhaps write everything down in a letter to him about how you feel for ...
Hi Sue,
If you feel that him being on his laptop is getting in the way of your relationship then perhaps you need to talk to him about it.
He may think ...
Hi SV,
Could you ask you partner to look into getting you some help? Maybe another pair of hands might help you to manage- like a child-minder for a few hours ...
Hi Mysty,
Perhaps this night was a way for you both to say goodbye on good terms. If you are going abroad in a couple of months and not coming back ...
Hi Danni,
You have had a pregnancy test which has put your mind at ease about that side of things but you need to know if you have contracted an STI ...
Hi Jasmine,
Everyone has that one thing that makes them feel, like you say, ‘weak at the knees’. For some its cotton wool or finger nails down a blackboard- it makes ...
Hi Lee,
Perhaps the thought of being with this other woman, has given you a taste of what it would be like to be in that exciting, honeymoon phase of a ...
Hi Lindsay,
I think it’s less about control and more about communication here, as control could imply that you are attempting something he doesn't know about.
It’s great that you have a ...
Hi Cas,
It could be paranoia or it could be that you just haven't found the right partner yet, who makes you feel more secure about the relationship. If you ...
Hi Josephine,
Chances are he will find out eventually; if not from you then from his best friend or someone else who potentially knows. It might sound better coming from you. ...
Hi Mary,
I think it all depends. Sometimes couples are better parents and get along more if they are apart and are single or in another relationship. They might have acknowledged ...
Hi Jo,
Have you joined any dating sites? This might be a way to meet someone who has a similar work schedule to you and the same potential passion for your ...
Hi Jodie,
This does sound like you are getting very mixed messages here.
If he hates seeing you with other guys this could be a sign that he likes you but it ...
Hi Amy,
Changing contraceptives can be a very unsure time, especially when you have been on one type for so long.
The IUD or coil can last from 5-10 years depending on ...
Hi Lynn,
Lower back pain is a common complaint for many people and if you search for ‘yoga exercises that relieve back pain’ on the internet there are several suggestions to ...
Hi Isla,
When people are in difficult relationships, not so much the relationship itself but the type of arrangement you have, it can be tempting to think how much easier things ...
