Hi Belle,
Perhaps ask yourself; if the situation was reversed would you want to know? If the answer is ‘yes’ then you could extend him the same courtesy you would expect ...
Hi Dharmesh,
This sounds like a very hard situation to be in right now, if both your personal and professional life are suffering at the same time.
Perhaps it’s best to talk ...
Hi Sue,
Perhaps your time could be on week nights. If there is no wiggle room at weekends then maybe you could spend Monday to Friday nights together.
Or could you talk ...
Hi Ellen,
Perhaps sit down with your Dad and talk to him. If you tell him your reasoning behind it then he might understand. It doesn’t sound like you are doing ...
Hi Summer,
If you pursue this again because you think you are a ‘perfect match’, there is always the chance of it happening again. Do you think you could cope with ...
Hi Tamika,
When people are in a 'rocky relationship’ it is tempting to look elsewhere- however there could be two reasons for this.
If you forget this other guy for a moment- ...
Hi Rebecca,
Sex can go through phases- it’s generally hot and heavy at first or when you get back together after a break up and can fizzle out the longer you ...
Hi Hannah,
Perhaps the issues with your partner are highlighting your need for this friendship again so you have someone to talk to. Relationships do go through periods where one or ...
Hi Laura,
If you tell your boyfriend then this might not help the trust issue, however if you don’t can you live with holding it back from him? Or can you ...
Hi Anna,
You may love him; however were you happy with him? If you think back to when you were together how does that make you feel? Do you look back ...
Hi Emma,
Perhaps the reason he doesn’t want children now is because of what has happened in his past. If he can’t see his child but pays towards him/ her then ...
Hi Corinne,
Perhaps you are feeling this way because of what could have been- the unknown. If he had walked out of your life then maybe you would not think of ...
Hi Meg,
If you are still sleeping together on some level it might seem like you are still together. You are still getting the affection that might be lacking for a ...
Hi Lonely,
This sounds like a very difficult place to be when you love your partner but can’t share a fundamental part of your relationship.
Could he go back to the doctor ...
Hi Susan,
It sounds like you are very torn right now between missing your husband and missing your daughter and grandchild.
Perhaps you could go over there every three months and ask ...
Hi Mandy,
This seems a very vulnerable place to be- with none or little money coming your way to help with the baby and his lack of acknowledgment of how his ...
Hi Joe,
Firstly, if you have hang ups about yourself and want to change them do them for you- not because of what you might think women will think of you ...
Hi Jen,
It sounds like he might have little choice in the matter re his shifts- if he does- would you contesting it make him change his mind? If he has ...
Hi Lucie,
It can be a very difficult time as you are used to living by your own rules and suddenly you might feel that you are back where you started ...
Hi Amy,
Perhaps every time he says that he is going out and doing something – you could do the same. There is nothing worse than sitting at home wondering what ...
Hi Casey,
This sounds like a very frustrating place to be right now. Have you considered looking for another job elsewhere? If you are having trouble with your boss and it ...
Hi Alexandra,
Rumours can be hurtful and frustrating at times, however if you react to them, often this can make people spread them further and make a bigger deal out of ...
Hi Mariella,
If you don’t talk to him then you might never know if there is a possibility he could like you, so perhaps have a conversation with him. If it ...
