Hi Amy,
You say that his relationship is ‘complicated’ already, so if you joined in then this could complicate things even more for him and for you. Why not be ...
Hi Sam,
This sounds tough- he doesn’t seem to be speaking to you in disrespectful way but perhaps you are anxious he might start? Or are you concerned that your sensitivity ...
Hi Kate,
This sounds like a confusing situation to be in, when this man appeared to lead you on only to cut all contact with you afterwards.
If the texts always descended ...
Hi Upset,
People with depression can be so absorbed by their condition that they fail see the bigger picture and how they are affecting those around them.
Perhaps the messages to your ...
Hi Housewife,
Perhaps you need to decide who you want to be with, your boyfriend or your friend. It is inevitable when you are unfaithful that someone will get hurt, even ...
Hi Sam,
The most important thing is not to take it to heart. Families make arrangements all the time on the spur of the moment and because it all happens so ...
Hi Wendy,
Infidelity is one of the hardest things that a married couple potentially has to face and forgiveness and trust might be difficult to comprehend when you have only just ...
Hi Leila,
Having something on your mind at bed time can often be a real nuisance when you are trying to get some rest.
I would suggest keeping a diary and writing ...
Hi Tammi,
Perhaps all you can do right now is be there for him and listen to him when he needs to talk.
This is understandably a very emotional time for him ...
Hi Fred,
This sounds like an awful shock to get so far into a relationship, especially when you are already emotionally fragile to begin with.
If you feel the anti-depressants are not ...
Hi Luke,
This sounds like a lot of pressure on you right now.
Could you find another job to supplement the one you already have? Perhaps if you are working part time ...
Hi Audrey,
It can be difficult to accept, however men and women will look at other people and find them attractive even when they are with someone else. Perhaps you have ...
Hi Prabesh,
Guilt is perfectly normal and our own inner compass that tells us when we need to perhaps apologize for something or make a change to prevent feeling like this ...
Hi Frankie,
If you remember then perhaps just tell her how much your clothes cost or guess, whatever she does with that information is up to her. It doesn’t really matter ...
Hi Siobhan,
It sounds like you are in a very negative place with your partner right now. If he is like this all the time, then it is bound to affect ...
Hi Laura,
Although being ‘caring, considerate and loyal’ are wonderful attributes in a man, in any relationship there still needs to be some element of physical attraction, otherwise you are simply ...
Hi Amber,
If you don't drink then perhaps go out with them for the start of the night and leave when it begins to get messy. Being the only sober one ...
Hi Mikey,
People say things in the heat of the moment that they don’t mean to get their partners to sit back and pay attention to them. Perhaps she just wanted ...
Hi Anonymous,
If your friends live far away so you don’t have a lot of people to go out with then perhaps join a dating site. That would encourage you to ...
Hi Christopher,
I could mean a couple of things- you could just be curious, gay or bisexual.
There is nothing wrong with experimenting until you decide your sexuality; it’s just what feels ...
Hi Finchy,
The question I always ask in situations like this is; if it were the other way around would you want to know? If the answer is ‘yes’ then perhaps ...
Hi Rick,
Four months is not a long time to be going out with someone and there is no written rule that states what you should and should not exchange with ...
Hi M,
Most men watch porn because they tend to masturbate more than women and are very visual creatures when they do. Women are able to get themselves off through fantasy ...
Hi Nikki,
If his girlfriend has found out and now he is giving you the silent treatment then maybe he never intended to leave her. If he did he could have ...
