Hi Anonymous,
Having a young family is always going to be a time of adjustment for any couple. A mother often assumes the role of the primary caregiver and so all ...
Hi Beth,
You are NOT stupid. Breaks ups are hard work and those who say otherwise have not been through one to know how it feels.
Two months is not a very ...
Hi Nikita,
Whatever the reason for breaking up with your ex, might arise again, so if you do get back together it will take a lot of work and dedication not ...
Hi Lonely Soul,
If you feel she would be better off with him and that she still loves him then perhaps take a step back from this and try to maintain ...
Hi Jess,
If your ex has been a good dad to your child the he might still value the relationship he has with him/her enough to carry on seeing them. If ...
Hi Lyndsy,
This seems like a very conflicted place to be- it sounds like you are fulfilling what your body is craving but in doing so it’s affecting your relationship with ...
Hi Hannah,
Some people like to keep tabs on what they are spending so if they are short form month to month they can see where cut backs can be made. ...
Hi Yinee,
Men are instinctively unsettled when something is going wrong at work. It is inbuilt that they are the providers and it is hard to escape this evolutionary role. If ...
Hi Sarah,
It is not unreasonable to want to spend more time with your spouse or to want some attention from the man you are married to.
If he won’t sell the ...
Hi Anonymous,
You might be concerned about what they think of your new boyfriend because you are looking for a reason not to let yourself be vulnerable. If you use other ...
Hi Imy,
Perhaps the reason that he hardly talks to you is that your decline of his offer of a date knocked his confidence. If you went out a couple of ...
Hi Anonymous,
Men cannot appreciate what a woman has been through both psychologically and physically when she has an abortion, so once can make some allowances for that, however they should ...
Hi Sharon,
The best advice I can give you is to try and accept the reasons why it didn’t work and use that for your next relationship to figure out what ...
Hi Kathryn,
Perhaps talk to him about it; it may seem inappropriate while he is with someone else, however if you don’t ask you might always be left wondering if you ...
Hi Guru,
It’s is true, divorce lawyers are expensive and he might not be in a position to pay for one right now, with a new born baby to support.
If you ...
Hi Shaz,
Depression and anxiety are a common cause of reduced libido. Has he been treated for either of both of these? If not then perhaps its time to go the ...
Hi Lyd,
You have already admitted that you don’t want to take him back, so it’s just about finding that inner strength to say ‘no’.
If the GP was rude to you ...
Hello Little Miss Lost,
The biggest fear a lot of people have is being on their own after a break up, however it sounds like it’s something you are ready for ...
Hi Zoe,
Often when someone gets angry over their partners actions it because they are feeling guilty about their own. Perhaps he was feeling guilty for texting his ex and so ...
Hi Megan,
It sounds like you are getting on with your life, with your accountancy study and looking after your children- so perhaps it’s time to focus on those aspects and ...
Hi Lizzie,
If he lost her only last September the emotions may still be raw. If he initiated the break up three years ago perhaps there is some residual guilt there ...
Hi Help,
Chances are he will hurt him in the short term, however if you have only been going out for 5 months then hopefully his attachment to you is not ...
Hi Anthony,
This sounds frustrating for you, when you want to show your wife physically that you are attracted to her, but she doesn’t seem to be savouring it when you ...
Hi Anonymous,
Perhaps the reason he has not made contact is because he wants to focus on his granddad right now, which is understandable. If he has to deal with relationship ...
