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I'm finding it hard to get a job
20 June 2014

Why do my parents keep treating me like a child?
Hi Aishling, It can be difficult to try and maintain some sort of independence when you are still living with your parents. Many people in their early twenties are feeling this ...

I love my husband
20 June 2014

Why do I feel so bad after having sex with him?

Hi Anonymous, If being with this other man is making you ‘feel like crap’ then perhaps seeing him is not the answer. It could be that you are feeling guilty for ...

They had sex before we were a couple
20 June 2014

Why can't I stop thinking of them having sex?

Hi Kelly, If he doesn’t feelings for her, then it sounds like her advances might wash over him. He chose you over her and it seems like all they had was ...

There is no chance of us reconciling sex
20 June 2014

I don't know how to feel about my husband anymore
Hi Paula, Have you considered going to see a relationship counsellor to discuss why he won’t have sex with you anymore?  Or about what has been going through your mind for ...

I think he still loves me
20 June 2014

How can I tell him I'm still in love with him?

Hi Zoe, It seems that you are on good terms with his mother- could she speak to him for you one last time to see if there are any feelings left? ...

It's been weeks now
19 June 2014

Why do I not want sex with my boyfriend anymore?
Hi Abigail, Loss of libido in women can be down to lots of different factors. Relationship or psychological problems for instance. How is your relationship on the whole? If everything is going ...

He keeps making excuses
19 June 2014

What can I do about our holiday arrangements?

Hi Nik, A lot of couples can fall into the trap of doing everything together which doesn’t necessarily always have to be the case. If he ‘moans for weeks’ about the single ...

They all say he's smitten!
19 June 2014

Should I enjoy the next few weeks with him or end it now?

Hi Katie, Perhaps he is not ready for you to move away with him- but could you try long distance maybe? That way you could continue as you are but not ...

Agony Aunts on Female First
19 June 2014

Why do we argue all the time?

Hi Victoria, Arguments are commonplace in any relationship; the real rest is how you resolve them afterwards. This is where communication is important. Arguments show your passionate side- however they are ...

I don't know!
19 June 2014

Who should I pick? My boyfriend or the new guy?

Hi Hannah, The real question here I think is that if the new guy was not on the scene- how would you feel about your boyfriend? If you still want to ...

Agony Aunts on Female First
19 June 2014

Why has he been texting other women?
Hi Maria, It sounds like you have both had experiences in the past that have affected how you see your relationship now. If you have been cheated on then chances are ...

We have not spoken in 8 months
18 June 2014

Should I mention that her fiance is working for an escort service?
Hi Nicha, There is perhaps no way to forget about what you saw; however the memory might fade as time goes on and the longer you spend apart. Perhaps it is ...

London is not good for me
18 June 2014

How do I tell her I don't want to live in London?
Hi R, If you have already signed to a tenancy then how long do you have until this is up? Could you afford it on your own or look for another ...

Agony Aunts on Female First
18 June 2014

We argue all the time- should we break up?

Hi Amy, Even the best couples argue; the most important thing is that you can resolve them and move on. Perhaps take a look at what you are arguing over- a ...

I tried to explain!
18 June 2014

Why is she mad with me for not kissing her when she was drunk?

Hi Dave, It sounds like this girl is unsure of who she wants- she might have been drunk, however if she is naturally indecisive then a bit of drink is only ...

He has lied in the past
18 June 2014

Why am I not IN love with him anymore?
Hi Kayla,         It seems that with everything you have told me you see no future in or way of recapturing the relationship with your boyfriend. It sounds like you need ...

He's not ruled out getting back together
18 June 2014

My husband has just left me- what am I going to do?

Hi Leanne, Perhaps he just needs time apart to revaluate things. Sometimes when couples are together all the time they can become complacent and take the other person for granted. Maybe ...

We have slept together a few times
17 June 2014

How do I tell him i'm falling in love with him?

Hi Kate, If you feel it’s wrong to sleep with him while he has a girlfriend then have you considered asking him to leave her for you? Or what it is ...

Both her and fiance have a history
17 June 2014

How do I tell them I don't want her at my wedding?

Hi Maya, It is your wedding, so if your day will be ruined by her there, then perhaps just tell them all the truth or ask your partner to. It is ...

He says he really likes me
17 June 2014

If I kiss this guy will my friend be upset?

Hi J, It can be difficult when a man comes between two friends. If this guy has been telling your friend that you are ‘hot’ and that ‘he likes you’ then ...

I know we love each other
17 June 2014

How do I change his mind about our break up?
Hi Lucy, If you were arguing all the time then chances are it was a difficult relationship to be happy in. The odd disagreement is healthy, but if arguments were commonplace ...

She says her child is his
17 June 2014

How can I find out if he's telling the truth?

Hi Ella, The trouble with rumours is that they cause this sort of confusion and mistrust between couples. Perhaps you need to take him at his word. If he is sensitive ...

She cheated on me a year ago
17 June 2014

Why won't she talk to me anymore?
Hi Hurting Welsh Man, Perhaps she is still dealing with the guilt of cheating on you and it’s making it hard for her to talk about because she might anticipate you ...

He said we had a great connection
16 June 2014

Why did he not show up?
Hi H, I suppose it depends if you are willing to end things with your other partner for this one. If the only thing standing in your way is the fact ...