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12 April 2014

'Should I tell my mum about my dad's affair?'

Hi Mark, This is an awful secret to be holding onto. I can’t tell you what to do as you know your mum better than I do. The question I would ...
11 April 2014

'I don't know if he has feelings for me or not....'

Hi Sophie, Guys use many diffident ways of wooing women that make them believe that they are not only after one thing. Introducing you to his parents might have been of ...
11 April 2014

Should I give up my dream job or my girlfriend?

Hi Sam, It is undoubtedly a very difficult position that you are in right now. It is a big thing to ask of your girlfriend- to potentially move away from her ...
11 April 2014

'I don't know if I can trust him....'

Hi Amy, Moving in with someone is a big step so both of you will likely be a little concerned about whether it will work living under the same roof.  People ...
10 April 2014

'Am I stuck in the friend zone?'

Hi Jack, Yes, a woman’s feelings can grow for a man over time the more she gets to know him. Attraction and sex can only go so far but if she ...
9 April 2014

I think he's the one

Hi Makeupgirl, If you think he is the one then perhaps you owe it to yourself to find out if he feels the same way. If you are the one who ...
9 April 2014

'Have I made a mistake changing jobs?....'

Hi Lola, You say that you are miserable in your existing job, so even if your new place of work is bigger; it has the potential to make you happier than ...
9 April 2014

'Will I ever move house?....'

Hi Jean, It sounds like you are looking for a fresh start by moving house. Why do you associate happiness with moving away? Has something happened to you in your current house ...
8 April 2014

'My girlfriend had a one night stand....'

Hi Alec, That all depends if you want an open relationship with your girlfriend or not. If you are happy for her to sleep with other men as well as with ...
8 April 2014

'My ex-boyfriend still loves me...'

Hi Mikayla Rose, Perhaps the reason you are not over him is due to the fact that you didn’t break up because there way something wrong with your relationship- you just ...
8 April 2014

'I've fallen for him really hard....'

Hi Amber, There is a chance that he is not over his girlfriend and that is why the subject is quite sensitive. He might like you but it could be that ...
7 April 2014

'Should I let him go?...'

Hi Rachael, After every break up both people, even if they were not good together find it hard to think about their ex with someone else. It still feels wrong, almost ...
7 April 2014

'I can't tell him how I feel when I'm sober....'

Hi Sarah, This sounds very unsettling for you right now. Drinking can be a great idea to take the pressure off a bit but if you find that you can only tell ...
6 April 2014

I'm frustrated with my work life

Hi Kathy, It sounds like perhaps you have not talked to him about all of this. It seems like you have got it all worked out in your head, but the ...
6 April 2014

'I'm a submissive but I've fallen in love.....'

Hi Charlotte, Two things have come out from what you have told me- for the duration of your time together you have been ‘confused and depressed’ and you feel ‘obligated’ to ...
5 April 2014

My husband likes dressing up in women's clothes

Hi Anonymous, This sounds like a very big shift in your relationship when what you thought you knew about your partner is no longer true. He has got rid of the phone ...
5 April 2014

'My partner has a lot of fetishes....'

Hi Sam, Men tend to masturbate more than women do, that is a fact, some men are turned on by the chance of getting caught in the act, which could be ...
5 April 2014

'My boyfriend is married with kids....'

Hi Kisha, These are undoubtedly very big lies to tell someone that you are in a relationship with. Have you asked him why he felt the need to lie about them? You ...
4 April 2014

How do I know if she is ready to make love?

Hi Chris, When you are in a new relationship, which is what I’m assuming, it can be difficult to determine when is the best time to have sex, especially with the ...
4 April 2014

I think my husband is having an affair

Hi Marie, This sounds like a very vulnerable place to be right now. If you feel like the trust has been compromised then it might be worth enrolling in some couple’s counselling. ...
4 April 2014

'He told me he loved me...'

Hi Piper, This does sound very confusing for you, when you have been friends for so long, so are bound to be very unsure times. Do you find excuses because you’re worried ...
3 April 2014

My girlfriend has no sex drive

Hi MDP, This sounds like a very insecure place to be, where you want to show your love for her through being physically intimate but feel that she is no longer ...
3 April 2014

'My friend hasn't been in touch for 6 weeks...'

Hi Anne, Could it be possible that she is a little uneasy about talking about a loss? Some people are very uncomfortable when dealing with death and although it might be ...
3 April 2014

'I'm so bored...'

Hi Mimi, There is always the temptation to feel left out when you are not interested in the same things your friends are. However, if you make sure that you see ...