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15 May 2014

I want to look pretty and stylish at his wedding!

Hi Sheran, If you wear the same thing a lot of the time this is your chance to shock people with a new look and make yourself feel really confident at ...
15 May 2014

I have a low sex drive

Hi Amy, This sounds very upsetting for you when you have all the other feelings for your partner except the physical ones. Low libido in women can be caused by lots of ...
14 May 2014

My friend is attracted to players

Hi Iggleston, Everyone makes bad choices especially when it comes to their love lives, so chances are everyone in your friendship group will do the same at one time or another ...
14 May 2014

My friend has cheated on her boyfriend with her best friend

Hi Lou, I most situations like this it is best to stay out of it as much as possible. If you give your opinion, chances are it will be thrown back ...
14 May 2014

We've only had sex 9 times in 14 years

Hi Helen, If you have talked to him, then perhaps it's time to suggest some relationship counselling. It sounds like when it’s just you and him talking you are not getting ...
12 May 2014

He didn't say 'I love you back'

Hi Lizzie, People fall in love at different rates- if he is forced into saying something he doesn’t mean than he would be lying to you which could potentially be much ...
12 May 2014

I'm having trouble getting over my break up

Hi Nikita, Break ups are a lot about the company you miss and the habits you were in with your partner. So to get over a break up, perhaps focus on ...
12 May 2014

I think my husband is having an affair

Hi Sophie, This sounds like a very insecure place to be when you have you have two different sides of the story from two people you love. All I would say is ...
10 May 2014

I slept with him before we moved in together

Hi Kitty, If you are all going to be living together for a while then it might have been a good move that you two didn’t start anything up. If you ...
9 May 2014

My girlfriend's ex is back on the scene

Hi Anonymous, You have a right to know where you stand or you could end up getting hurt here. If you continue the relationship without knowing if she wants you or ...
9 May 2014

My aunt is dating someone I don't like

Hi Sad, Sometimes we have to put up with things that we are not happy with for the sake of the ones we love. If your aunt seems happy then I ...
9 May 2014

My boyfriend has no sex drive

Hi Francesca, This sounds very frustrating for you at present. It seems that you have tried a lot of things to get your sex life back on track- so perhaps it ...
8 May 2014

Should I ask my boyfriend if he loves me?

Hi Marie, There is no set amount of time to say I love you in- it differs between couples; however 3 years is a long time not to have expressed how ...
8 May 2014

My girlfriend is self conscious about sex

Hi Ed, It sounds like you have tried a lot of different ways to help your sex life become more varied and to boost your partner’s confidence in the bedroom. The ...
8 May 2014

My daughter is having doubts about her engagement

Hi Cheryl, Perhaps it is all just pre wedding nerves. It might have waited for so long that she assumed it would take him more time to ask her and it ...
7 May 2014

Will waxing make my hair grow back thinner?

Hi Haley, Yes it should grow back thinner, like your underarms. The constant waxing will likely have weakened the follicle making the hair grow back finer than it was when you ...
7 May 2014

He won't show me any affection

Hi Sam, It sounds like you are both under a lot of pressure, you with your depression and university commitments and him and his new job. Stress can affect a couple’s ...
7 May 2014

My male best friend has become an issue

Hi Emma, Having to choose between your partner and your best friend sounds like a very hard decision to have to make. You should not really have to choose- ideally you ...
6 May 2014

I don't find him attractive or fun anymore

Hi Hayley, If he is getting help then at least you know that you are not his only source of support. It sounds like your straight talking might have finally got ...
4 May 2014

Should I apologize to my ex?

Hi Talie, It is very admirable to want to apologise, however if that is all you want to do then ask yourself if it’s worth it. If you want to start ...
4 May 2014

I've fallen for a guy who has a girlfriend

Hi Amii, This does sound very hard when you feel you have fallen for him while he is with someone else. If he did, say break up with his girlfriend for you- ...
4 May 2014

We're friends with benefits but he's got a girlfriend

Hi Beth, People can be in bad relationships and never see it or do anything about it. Even if you give him a nudge- it’s ultimately up to him to leave ...
3 May 2014

My work colleagues are vulgar

Hi John, A male dominated environment is very testosterone charged- so therefore full of men wanting to be the top dog. This is all down to your biology- most men instinctively ...
3 May 2014

Why are my boyfriend's parents not happy for us?

Hi Sophie, This does sound very frustrating for you, given how hard you have worked for everything you have. It could be that it’s because it’s their daughter having the baby- your ...