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24 April 2014

'I had sex with my best friend....'

Hi Lisa, If he is being sent to Germany for the foreseeable future then perhaps protect yourself and him and try to be friends during this time. When he comes back ...
24 April 2014

I'm not sure if I want to meet his son

Hi Dee, Perhaps just take it as his pace- he knows his son the best and how to deal with him, so maybe let him take the reins on this one. ...
23 April 2014

'There are so many things in our way.....'

Hi Layla, It is a good basis if you are both attracted to each other but relationships are much deeper than simply fancying the other person. If you have admitted that ...
23 April 2014

He forgot my name- is he interested?

Hi Claire, If a guy was really interested in you then he would remember your name. It’s the first piece of information you learn about someone and it sticks if you ...
23 April 2014

'People always have a go at me.....'

Hi Tuna, It all depends over what over. If you have been in the wrong then the best thing to do is to apologise, admit fault, try and make amends and ...
22 April 2014

Do I forgive him for going back on social media?

Hi Niquita, It sounds like you have given up an awful lot for your partner- you have moved away from your home, forgiven him for cheating on you as well as ...
22 April 2014

'I love him but he's not ready....'

Hi Megs, It sounds like you are in a much happier place in your relationship and feel much safer, but this is the one thing that is causing a bit of ...
22 April 2014

I wan't to believe her but I can't

Hi Matt, Cheating is all dependent on what you and your partner deem as crossing the line and what parameters you set at the beginning of the relationship. Even though all of ...
21 April 2014

I think we should try being a couple

Hi Jenna, Try not to be so influenced by your friend’s opinions of whether you should be together or not. The main thing is if it feels right for you both. ...
20 April 2014

'If he loves me then why did he cheat?....'

Hi Shoye, Many couples suffer an infidelity and still manage to find it in themselves to forgive, redeem themselves and move on. It all depends if you genuinely think he will ...
19 April 2014

'I've fallen for someone else....'

Hi Abi, If everything is going well in your relationship then you tend to be blind the other options out there because your entire focus is on your partner. If you ...
18 April 2014

I'm depressed about gaining weight

Hi Emma, It sounds like your changes in your body are occupying your every waking thought right now. I would suggest that you go to the doctors and see about getting a ...
17 April 2014

'I told him I love him....'

Hi Simone, Love is not so much about what you say but more about what you do to prove it your love or lack of it. If you are ignoring him ...
16 April 2014

'I want him to commit...'

Hi Abby, If what you want is commitment and exclusivity then perhaps you should tell him. That said, if you are sure that he won’t cheat on you with other women ...
16 April 2014

'How do I get him out of my system?.....'

Hello Bella, You have an awful lot going on here so perhaps we should take it bit by bit. Seeing death at such a young age can make you do two things- ...
16 April 2014

'I would be heartbroken if I lost him....'

Hi Shannon, It seems that you have been supportive while he has been in prison doing what you can for him; however it sounds like your efforts have been lost on ...
15 April 2014

Should we stay together or just be friends?

Hi Rhys, Every relationship goes through its troubles so; if you love each other then there should be an expectation that it’s not going to be rosy all the time. It sounds ...
15 April 2014

'He hasn't changed....'

Hi Jess, One of the most important things in your relationship is trust and it seems lacking here on your part. If you have talked about this to him a lot ...
15 April 2014

'I like my boyfriend but I love my ex....'

Hi Liorella, You made the decision to leave him because of him changing his mind all the time and ‘messing you about’, so what makes you think he has will be ...
14 April 2014

'My husband left me 9 months ago....'

Hi Sue, It sounds like an awful lot that you have to deal with at the moment; while your health is bad and your relationship is going through a troubling time. Perhaps ...
14 April 2014

'He broke up with me for religious reasons....'

Hi Angel, It sounds like he might have moved on or is at least trying to if he is not getting back in touch with you after you make contact. Speaking ...
14 April 2014

What can I do for IBS?

Hi Deborah, I would suggest that you go to the doctors- you may have IBS or you could have food intolerance to something already in your diet. Either can cause tummy ...
13 April 2014

'My friend said that my boyfriend has a partner and a child...'

Hi New@dating, Your friend probably wouldn’t have called you so soon if she didn’t believe the rumours, so it sounds like it’s worth investigating. Perhaps the best port of call here ...
12 April 2014

'We're in a rut....'

Hi Am, It is natural to look at other men and find them attractive, even have banter with them if you have partner. There is no harm in observing, the trouble ...