Hi Kelly,
Even if you have been together a while- moving in can still seem like a big step. The best relationships are those where both partners are comfortable doing things ...
Hello Ritu,
It sounds very difficult to feel as if you have lost a lover and friend together.
His behaviour is very back and forth and it seems like its messing with ...
Hi Mphatso,
If she has asked to reassess your relationship then perhaps give her some space to think and let her get in touch with you when she’s ready. It seems ...
Hi Hattie,
If you feel strongly against getting a loan and putting your name against debt then I would suggest that you don’t. Holidays are a great time to bond with ...
Hi Anonymous,
There is an expectation for effort to trail off the longer you are with someone, as you get more comfortable with one another and feel like you don’t need ...
Hi Hol,
This sounds very frustrating for you- that you are going through all of this without the support of your partner.
He is likely making it all about him because he ...
Hi Anne,
This sounds like an awful place to be right now.
Why are the people you refer to so against your relationship? Is there no way to talk to them and ...
Hi Michael,
It sounds like you were focusing on protecting yourself after such a long relationship that you felt you couldn’t communicate with her until you had broken up and realised ...
Hi Alice,
This sounds like a really stressful situation to be in, especially when you still feel strongly for him.
You are good enough- it’s just he is finding it difficult to ...
Hi Jason,
It sounds like everything is getting on top of you right now and you have very mixed emotions for many areas and people in your life.
Have you considered couples ...
Hi Emma,
Taking this new guy out of the equation- do you still want to be with your boyfriend or do you feel that the long distance thing is not working? ...
Hi Jane,
It sounds like you are getting mixed messages from this guy that you need clarifying.
If you are still living with your ex, then it might not be the best ...
Hi Emily,
It seems that currently you feel you have many barriers getting in the way of you and your partner.
Perhaps focus on getting to where you want to be and ...
Hi Grace,
Why not arrange a party at your house and invite him along? If it’s a big affair then he won’t seem too suspicious if you invite him, or get ...
Hi Hannah,
Perhaps talk to him and reassure him that it’s not an issue for you, but that it might be worth getting checked out by a doctor just to make ...
Hi Millie,
This sounds like an awful situation to be in- you need to express your own feelings over what’s happened but you are also concerned for your mum too. That ...
Hi Melanie,
This sounds a very tough situation to be in when you want both sides to get along but they won’t.
Many families go through the same- if they love you ...
Hi Gemma,
It seems that you are torn between your perception of this potential relationship and what everyone else thinks of it.
The most important thing to remember is that looks can ...
Hi Bob,
It seems like you do trust her but you don’t trust him in this situation and are frustrated by the fact that she is not acknowledging how much you ...
Hi Charlotte,
This sounds confusing when like him but believe him not to be in the same place as you.
It sounds like what he needs right now is a friend. If ...
Hi Moza,
It sounds like you having strong feelings for this man for a long time is making you want to finally find out how he feels back.
I can’t tell you ...
Hi Jason,
This sounds an extremely emotional situation for you both, given how much you care for each other.
It seems that you have a very practical approach to this- I am ...
Hi Matt,
It sounds like this could be confusing- when she is telling you about her strong feelings for you but not showing you with her actions.
I presume that you have ...