Hi Anonymous,
You say that you don’t know what to say to them so perhaps write it all down like you have here.
You have very clearly explained in your letter to ...
Hi Anonymous,
If you had a ‘friends with benefits’ thing, then technically he was free to see whoever he wanted at the time. That said, it seems that he pays more ...
Hi Josie,
It sounds like you have already made your decision about this relationship. You say that you ‘know you are no good together’, that ‘you deserve better’ and that the ...
Hi Sue,
This sounds like an awful position to be in with your daughter. When you want to help her and when you do it seems sometimes the help is not ...
Hi Rebecca,
People fall in love at different times- in couples this can be very awkward if it’s not around the same time for the person who has fallen first. Has ...
Hi Nicola,
You have already admitted that you think you should go back to university, so it sounds like you have already made the decision. Marriage is not time bound- it ...
Hi Tina,
Even if you love him, relationships are about mutual love. If he ‘treats you like crap’ but tells you he loves you, then his actions are not matching up ...
Hi Dotty,
It sounds like he is trying to get your attention by all the things you have mentioned, which could each be sign of flirtation. The comment about his mother ...
Hi Anonymous,
If your weight has been doctor approved then you should have nothing to worry about. If you can maintain a healthy weight doing what you are doing then it ...
Hi Molly,
Perhaps just tell her how you feel and ask her opinion about it. It is easier going into it with her blessing; however keep in mind that she might ...
Hi Sandie,
It sounds like he is trying to protect you from any negative comments or bad feeling that you might be faced with if you visit him while his daughters ...
Hi Anonymous,
If you don’t talk to him then he could think that you are ok with him doing the same again, which given your feelings after last time might make ...
Hi Pam,
It can be quite a shock as a parent when you discover that your child is sexually active- even more so when an act reveals that their sexuality is ...
Hi Amy,
The fact that your boyfriend still masturbates over your pictures after two years is something that you should celebrate! After such a long time men usually opt for porn, ...
Hi Raju,
Every relationship has these little niggles that to others may seem insignificant but after 42 years of the same thing, it can become quite wearing.
You have not mentioned talking ...
Hi Anonymous,
It is normal to have disagreements with your friends. After all you are all different people who will have different views on a lot of things other than those ...
Hi Jayne,
Women often automatically think that when men don’t want to have sex with them that it's down to their attractiveness, when actually it could be a good number of ...
Hi Max,
I think the question comes down to if you trust her or not. If you have no reason to believe that she has strayed before then why should it ...
Hi Shannon,
If this is a repeat behaviour, then chances are he will cancel again. Given that he has initiated getting back together it seems contradictory that he should be the ...
