Hi Chi Mi,
If you feel you have no say in your conversations about his behaviour then maybe enrol in some counselling. It might need an outside perspective to let him ...
Hi Anita,
There is a chance that he is keeping it under wraps in case he tells people he is in a relationship and then you break up with him again, ...
Hi Maria,
If you are in a place where you are ready to look for love then sometimes you need to take action instead of waiting for situations to present themselves ...
Hi Kizzy,
The question that you could ask yourself is if you are in love with him or the idea of him? Do you feel safer in a relationship and vulnerable ...
Hi Marie,
It sounds like it might be something psychological that is stopping him from reaching orgasm. Maybe you could talk to him about getting pregnant- is it what he really ...
Hi Eileen,
This sounds very upsetting for you when you have a long established relationship with your partner and want to be included in all aspects of his life, but it ...
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Hi Ieva,
When the honeymoon period so over, the rose tinted glasses come off and the critical eye starts to kick in, relationships are not as perfect as they appeared ...
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Hi Jamie,
This does sound frustrating when you feel that your sexual attraction for her is growing the longer you are not having it.
Are you focusing solely on not getting ...
Hi Drew,
It is such a shame that people feel the need to make remarks about a positive action in your life- this does sound disappointing for you.
I would suggest that ...
Hi Kyla,
It might depend on what it was about? If you feel that his opinion of you is unjustified then perhaps tell him what you heard and give him your ...
Hi Sam,
This sounds very frustrating for you, especially if you are at a time when you feel you would like to have something exclusive with a man.
What do you talk ...
Hi Kath,
His family might see that side of him when you are all together, but the likelihood is they have no idea what goes on behind closed doors so they ...
Hi Stacey,
Perhaps this guy has brought up some issues in your relationship that you had not realised before. Maybe you don’t have a lot in common with your partner, or ...
Hi Rosie,
This is a difficult thing to tell him, however if you don’t then you might affect his future happiness too.
Being single is all about having your own routine and ...
Hi Hana,
Working together can make things tricky if you are trying to fall out of love with someone, but not impossible. If you want to stay as friends then perhaps ...
Hi WB,
It sounds like you are reacting badly to some negative things that are happening to those closest to you right now.
If keeping yourself busy is not distracting you ...
Hi Lauren,
Maybe you could take a back seat in the relationship until you know that he has everything in place back home? Being in the centre of a break up ...
Hi Esha,
This does sound like a very confusing place to be when his behaviour is so inconsistent towards you.
Perhaps you could talk to him and ask him what he wants- ...
Hi Fred,
The most important thing to stop you from pushing each other apart is to be honest and make the decision together. If one of you feels differently to the ...
Hi Jill,
If you are unsure about his feelings perhaps you could ask him- if you don’t, you might be left wondering where you stand in all of this. He might ...
Hi Jody,
Perhaps this is a conversation you should have with him. Maybe you could tell him how his drinking makes you feel about your relationship. During pregnancy it’s important that ...
Hi Sally,
Perhaps the reason you are drawn to this man is because he is more of an extrovert. If your boyfriend is ‘perfect’ for you in every other way, then ...
