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17 November 2014

Why am I yet to have sex with my husband?

Hi Rach, The longer you leave it the more pressure you might put on yourself as you build it up in your mind. If you got married before having sex, then ...
15 November 2014

Should I give up on my boyfriend for not making the first move?

Hi Lianne, Men are not generally experts when it comes to arranging nights out, texting first and replying to text messages during working hours, that is not just your boyfriend that ...
14 November 2014

Why am I still single at 32?

Hi Jo, I would suggest giving the online dating thing another go, perhaps you have not got the reception you wanted or quickly enough- so it may need a bit more ...
12 November 2014

I have a massive crush on a guy- what should I do?

Hi Sazza, Your issue here might be that you are sending your friends to talk to him instead of doing it yourself. Perhaps he does not want to tell your mates ...
10 November 2014

Why does my boyfriend put me down in front of his friends?

Hi Shez, It sounds very difficult for you right now- to love someone who is not showing you any love in return. Have you tried telling him that you are not happy ...
8 November 2014

What should I eat and drink to lower blood pressure?

Hi Kim, I would suggest going to your doctor and getting a referral to a nutritionist if you are unsure of what foods to eat, however a quick search on Google ...
7 November 2014

Should I tell my ex I'm still crazy about him?

Hi Dannii, The problem here is that you are relying on what his friends is telling you- although it might be true, he could be a good friend to your ex ...
6 November 2014

Should I tell him that the time is right now for a relationship?

Hi Maisie, If you don’t ask him if he wants to get back together with you again you may always be left wondering what could have been. If you feel that ...
5 November 2014

I'm having trouble with my periods-can you help me?

Hi Emily, I would ask, if you keep having accidents if the absorbency of your towel or tampon is enough? If it is leaking through your underwear and clothes then perhaps ...
3 November 2014

How can I stop arguing in relationships like my parents do?

Hi Bob, It is normal and natural to mimic our parent’s relationships and how they conduct themselves in them. When you then get into relationships yourself, you are programmed to think ...
2 November 2014

How do I tell my boyfriend I want a serious relationship?

Hi Sheryl, If you feel ready, great, but I would try and find out if he wants the same things as you before you dive into it completely. You might have ...
1 November 2014

Why does my partner not satisfy me in bed?

Hi Cara, Telling a man that he is not good enough in bed is one of the most painful things for them to hear. Men hold a lot of their self-esteem ...
30 October 2014

How can I ask her to be my girlfriend?

Hi David, You say that you are ‘seeing her’, so it seems like you might already be boyfriend and girlfriend. If she is willing to go out with you on your ...
30 October 2014

Why do my friends criticise my new relationship?

Hi Luke, It can be hard in a large group of friends when one of its members gets a new romance. In the endless pursuit to find ‘the one’, women can ...
28 October 2014

Why did he lie to me?

Hi K, There may not be anything sinister about this at all. Yes, he didn't tell you he was back on there, but he hasn't posted anything in six months which ...
28 October 2014

Should I get back with my ex but lose weight first?

Hi Amy, Having sex with your ex is dangerous territory, because you still feel like a couple but there is nothing stopping either of you sleeping with other people. This can ...
28 October 2014

Why did my husband lie to me?

Hi Devastated, If this is not the first time he has done it- why is this time different? Perhaps you could enrol in some relationship counselling to explore why he lied to ...
28 October 2014

Should I inform him I told him a lie?

Hi Jen, Everyone has told a lie at some point in their life- but we have to learn to forget and forgive ourselves- or we would live our lives in permanent ...
26 October 2014

Should we get back together after 4 months of being apart?

Hi Anna, Four months is not a long time to be apart from someone you have been in a relationship with for two years. It is natural to crave being back ...
25 October 2014

My husband is in debt again- what should I do?

Hi Somy, This sounds like a really disappointing place to be right now, when you have helped him get out of his money troubles and he has reverted back to the ...
24 October 2014

Why is my boyfriend on a cougar dating site?

Hi Sarah, It is understandable that you might have some trust issues after he cheated on you once- hence why you might have gone through his emails. If he is looking to ...
23 October 2014

Why does my boyfriend text me 40 times a day?

Hi Cassandra, This does sound overbearing, especially if you have not agreed to contact each other in such vast quantities beforehand. Every relationship needs individual space or you end up feeling ...
21 October 2014

Why do I think about my ex when i'm with my new man?

Hi Eloise, Perhaps you tried for so long to get him to like you that you expected more from the relationship than you are getting. Sometimes in the lead up to ...
20 October 2014

Does he ever want to marry me?

Hi Emma, The first piece of advice I would give you is to stop comparing yourself to other people- there will always be another couple out there, close to you or ...