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3 March 2015

If she's happy does that mean I can date him?

Hi Little Miss, Perhaps you could ask her the last question. She might be looking to get back with her ex and work things out, however that doesn’t take away from ...
3 March 2015

I'm happy in his company- should I ask him out again?

Hi Valerie, If you don’t ask him you might always be left wondering- so it might be worth bringing it up. If it happens it happens is a very organic process ...
2 March 2015

Why does he masturbate when we sleep separately?

Hi Kyla, If your sex life is healthy then perhaps there is nothing to worry about here. Sometimes when a partner masturbates it can feel like rejection, however if you are ...

2 March 2015

Why won't he sleep with me after what happened?

Hi Rachel, Although it is embarrassing when our bodies do something that we are not prepared for, it is a natural bodily function. Although your partner may be aware of what you ...
2 March 2015

Why does my partner sleep on the couch and not in bed with me?

Hi Janine, This sounds very difficult- that you want to have that closeness back with your husband but don’t know why he has moved away from you physically and perhaps emotionally ...
2 March 2015

Why did we sleep together when he has a partner and kids?

Hi Harriet, I think this all boils down to what type of relationship you want. He has already admitted to you that being with his partner ‘is the choice he has ...
2 March 2015

Why did my best friend sleep with the guy who was interested in me?

Hi Louise, It is possible that your friend was jealous that someone was interested in you and craved the same feeling of being wanted. Does she always get the attention when ...
2 March 2015

Should I sleep with my boyfriend's best friend?

Hi Skyla, If you are arguing daily with your boyfriend after only 4 months and you are not attracted to him sexually anymore then perhaps it’s time to call things a ...
2 March 2015

Why did my girlfriend ask me to sleep with another woman?

Hi Andrew,  This certainly sounds confusing when it seems you have both been monogamous for ten years. How is your sex life? Could it be that she feels she is not giving ...
2 March 2015

Why does he want to sleep with other women?

Hi A, Fidelity is something that most of us crave from our relationship, it is only in rare cases that women are accepting of their partners going to strip clubs and ...
1 March 2015

Should I move out or not?

Perhaps running away is not the answer. Have you talked to your mum about the reasons you don't get on? Maybe if you were able to address them it could ...

28 February 2015

I still like my ex partner- what should I do?

Perhaps it's best to stay out of things and see how it goes with them. If they are not meant to be they will go their separate ways eventually, without ...
27 February 2015

How can I keep my man?

Just because he is meeting his son for the first time does not mean that he will go back to his ex because she is there too. This should be ...

27 February 2015

How can I make more friends?

Making friends can be hard, however if you make the effort it should increase your chances of doubling your friendship circle. Do you have a passion, hobbies or interests? If ...

26 February 2015

My partner has got a new job- why do I feel so alone and sad?

It is understandable that you might feel alone and sad right now- so maybe while he is a bit distant you could spend some time with your friends and family ...

25 February 2015

Why do I regret breaking up with my boyfriend?

If you have been feeling unsure about your relationship for a while, then perhaps it's because you know deep down that he is not right for you. You may not ...

25 February 2015

I think I'm depressed- what should I do?

There is a lot of help out there for people who feel they are suffering from depression. The first place I would recommend is The Samaritans- they offer a free ...

25 February 2015

Should I break up with him because I'm bored of his children?

If you love him and this is the only issue in your relationship then perhaps you could look at ways to do more activity based things when you are together. ...

24 February 2015

Why does he act like a couple with his house mate?

Perhaps you need to talk to him and ask him how he would feel if you were doing the same with another man. If he feels nothing for her and ...

24 February 2015

Why won't my husband let me see his phone bill?

There is the possibility of that- he may be calling someone he doesn't want you to know about. Perhaps talk to him and ask him why he feels the need ...

24 February 2015

Why doesn't it feel like we've broken up?

If he wants all the same perks of being with you, just not the exclusivity, then he could well be using you. If you still have sex, then he may ...

23 February 2015

Is it wrong to fall for someone else when in a 7 year relationship?

First of all- does this other person feel the same way in return? If not then maybe this says more about how you feel about your partner. If you have ...

23 February 2015

Why am I jealous of my friend's new relationship?

Perhaps the reason you are so jealous is because you are ready for a relationship yourself and her spending time with her boyfriend is highlighting this. It can be frustrating ...

23 February 2015

Should I continue in my marriage?

Hi Evelyn, Infidelity can be a continuous issue in a relationship if both of you have decided to stay together but you have left the reasons that caused it unattended to. ...