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4 May 2015

Why are my emotions so unsteady?

If you feel you are so far away from your dreams then perhaps make a list of what it is that you want to achieve and what steps you need ...
2 May 2015

Why is he more friendly over text than in person?

If he used to like you then perhaps he still does, however he may be shy. Being close over text can be easier for some people than in person as ...
1 May 2015

Should I leave my husband?

Perhaps he is traditional and still believes that he should be the main bread winner in the home. If he was out of work maybe it dented his confidence because ...
30 April 2015

How do I know if I'm still in love my husband?

Perhaps the reason you are so drawn to this man is because your husband has been different to the one you married. Maybe if he had stayed the same-you would ...
29 April 2015

How can I help my friend and her relationship with men?

As is the case with most friends- we all differ significantly on at least one thing that the other does. If you feel that this is wrong- then as long ...
29 April 2015

What should I do about the new man in my life?

Perhaps meeting this man has highlighted the things that are lacking in your current relationship. Maybe you need to work on your communication skills together, or you need to find ...
29 April 2015

Why is my wife so clumsy and careless?

It does sound like she is struggling to organise all these different things. It is not being a 'control freak' by taking on this responsibility in the home, but more ...
28 April 2015

Why does it take me so long to reach orgasm?

It could be that you are desensitising yourself by using a condom. Have you spoken to your partner about using a different type of condom- such as thin feel variety ...
28 April 2015

Should I try and get out of my mate's birthday celebrations?

As it is her birthday, then perhaps you could endure it from a few hours- if she is the type of friend who would do the same for you. Friendship ...
28 April 2015

Is my ex partner hurting as much as me?

I would suggest that you don't focus on how he is feeling and concentrate on you right now. If you try to measure your hurt against his, then this is ...
27 April 2015

Does my best friend have feelings for me?

This reaction could spark from for having feelings for you or if she is not having regular sex or in a relationship- she may be jealous that you potentially are. ...
27 April 2015

How can I stop thinking about death?

It is natural and normal to focus on your own life after someone close to you has passed away. It gives us a new perspective on life- sometimes this can ...
27 April 2015

Should I make an effort with my partner's friends?

If your boyfriend wants you to meet his mates- it's likely to show you off because he is proud of you and your relationship. If he thought you couldn't handle ...
25 April 2015

How can I stop my dreams affecting my relationship?

Sex dreams are very rarely about sex. The temptation is to think that they mean you want to cheat on your partner- when actually they are often about other things. ...
24 April 2015

I think I wet myself at my friend's house- should I talk to her about it?

It is possible that you were so stressed and upset that your mind was elsewhere and it happened without you noticing. There is such a thing as Anxiety Urination- in ...

24 April 2015

He found out about my past- how can I get him to trust me again?

It sounds like this is more about him that it is you. Has he been hurt by another woman in the past? If so then he may have trouble trusting ...
23 April 2015

Should I be with him even though he doesn't want a relationship?

I suppose it all depends what you want. I get the impression that you want a relationship rather than something casual, which is why you have written in. If this ...
23 April 2015

How can I get my confidence back?

It sounds like you have had two upheavals at once- finding out about your illness and losing your partner within a short space of time. It seems that perhaps the ...
23 April 2015

How can I ask my partner if she really wants to be with me?

I would suggest taking this a little bit at a time and see if small changes can lead to a big change. Perhaps start with asking if she can tell ...
22 April 2015

Why haven't I found my prince yet?

It sounds like you have dated lots of people who are wrong for you and it has affected your confidence in men and dating as a whole. To find a ...
22 April 2015

Should I choose sides or remain friends with both of them?

I would suggest that you stay on neutral ground- it sounds like the falling out is nothing to do with you, so perhaps stay friends with both of them. If ...
21 April 2015

How can I stop my son's girlfriend coming between me and my friend?

Does she know why you didn't go to the first scan? If this is not clear, she may have assumed why you didn't rather than knowing the facts. You must ...
21 April 2015

Should I say goodbye to my ex?

This does sound very confusing for you- as you are still acting like a couple in some ways but not others. It sounds like he is playing it safe and ...
21 April 2015

Should I end my friendship with him because of my crush?

If you value his friendship, then cutting him out of your life might make you feel even worse- eight years is a long time to be invested in a friendship ...