It is understandable that you want to do something memorable for your 30th birthday- after all it only comes around once. If you have loved this theme since you ...
It is coincidental that she gets in touch or sends you provocative messages before she asks for money, so it is very likely that you are being used as a ...
It doesn't sound like you went snooping on his phone to find this out. You used his phone for another reason and stumbled across these texts- so if you were ...
Hi Shelby,
Most of his behaviours have seemed pretty negative after having sex- not cuddling, not replying to messages and nothing since you were together. All of this could mean that ...
Just because your partner's godfather holds these views does not automatically mean that he will, that said, sometimes if someone spends a lot of time in another person's company- it ...
If you feel second best, then perhaps you should to talk to him and tell him how you feel. Yes- he needs to be flexible where his children are concerned ...
Hi Michele,
As situations go it’s not ideal. How would he feel if you were moving back in with your ex-husband? Could you suggest that he moves in with a friend ...
Hi Lorna,
The reason you are feeling this ‘guilt’ might be due to the fact that you didn’t end the relationship on bad terms. Many coupes leave a relationship with bad ...
Hi Rachael,
It sounds like you are being pulled in two very different directions right now.
One very good piece of advice I carry with me is that real friends are like ...
Hi CL,
Perhaps it might be wise to speak to your partner about this first. If you were to arrange anything without his knowledge then he might think that you are ...
Hi Stephanie,
Being a good friend is an attractive quality, however not at the expense of your marriage.
If you have not had a close friend of the opposite sex or otherwise, ...
Hi Starling,
If there are any issues with a member of your partner’s family, perhaps leave it alone. You could mention it to your partner, however will it do any good ...
Hi Jo,
This does sound very upsetting especially when it seems like it’s dividing the family.
She may be affected by her illness, however if her husband is backing her up ...
Hi Lindsay,
Perhaps the best thing to do here is just to talk to her. It can be difficult when you are all so closely knit- lines can be crossed without ...
Hi Jo,
We all say things we wish we hadn’t when we were drunk- the most important thing is what we do about it afterwards to make amends.
It will be a ...
Hi Wendy,
At work’s parties everyone lets down their guard. It’s a chance to forget about how you would normally act around those you work with and be a little more ...
Hi Claire,
If this has not started up again, then it gives you a chance to talk to him about it and perhaps negotiate with him over the weekend situation.
If he ...
Hi Anonymous,
I think this all boils down to how much you trust your boyfriend. The situation is not the most ideal, however if his ex is part of a bigger ...
Hi Lisa,
Perhaps mention to her that you would like to be involved in more of the wedding plans- and to ask you beforehand if you feel you are well ...
Hi Anne,
It does seem that the better option would have been to contact you first to discuss the issue of money rather than your sister, as this sounds like it ...
Yin / Tyler
Although you are bothered by the bad breath, you are looking after his best interests. You are right to tell him about the things that can happen, such ...
Hi Ellis,
If her relationship with your stepson is that bad then perhaps she will come to realise this on her own and leave him. If she can see that her ...
Hi Tracy,
This is an awful thing to find out, especially after you have been together for so long.
I suppose you could ask yourself the question- would you only stay with ...
Hi Alan,
There are many dating sites set up for this sort of relationship now. Those who want to remain married but still enjoy a healthy sex life- some tell their ...
