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21 June 2015

How can I get my ex to give me a second chance?

It sounds like you need to look after your own needs before entering into another relationship with this woman or anyone else. Being with someone doesn't solve any issues you ...
19 June 2015

Should I leave a job that is full of opportunity?

It sounds like you have a lot to be proud of- having worked in one of the best hospitals in the country for nearly two years- and at the beginning ...
18 June 2015

Why do I dislike my partner's new appearance so much?

It can be challenging to get used to a partner's new look, especially if it is vastly different from his previous image and you are not fond of it. That ...
18 June 2015

Why am I having toilet trouble?

It sounds like you have constipation, however it all depends on how long you have had it for and how severe your symptoms are- it can often be rectified ...
17 June 2015

Why won't my baby eat when I try to feed her?

Establishing a routine and a successful feed with a baby is a challenging thing for any new mum, so try not to be so hard on yourself. You are both ...
16 June 2015

Am I overweight for my height?

If you have any concerns over your weight vs your height, there are many online tools to help you find this out. According to Lloyds Pharmacy; To calculate your BMI, ...
10 June 2015

How can I boost my son's confidence after his conversation with his father?

I would begin by talking to him about it and how he feels about what his father said. It's not playing for favourites, but he needs to know that he ...
10 June 2015

Should I warn her about my ex?

Perhaps one option is not to get involved- like your friends are doing- if he really is as bad as you say, then she might realise and end the relationship ...
9 June 2015

Did I do the right thing cutting her off?

It sounds like you have given this woman a lot of chances in the past that have not resulted in the way you wanted them to. It seems that she ...
9 June 2015

Why won't my mum have the operation?

It is ultimately your mother's decision to have the operation or not- not yours or your sisters. She does need to be well informed of the consequences of both options. ...
9 June 2015

Why does he not reply to my text messages right away?

Text message frequency is an unreliable way of analysing your friendship with someone. He may have been busy before and after his match to reply to your message and was ...
8 June 2015

Does he want to be my friend or not?

It sounds like he might just be shy. If your families are friends, then could you arrange a family get together so you are all in the company of people ...
8 June 2015

How can I live rather than just exist?

Perhaps the issue is that you lack confidence in yourself and it makes you think that you are no good at anything when you are. If you believe that you ...
8 June 2015

Why is my implant itchy and painful?

It sounds like it might not be suited to your body anymore and you need to decide on some changes with a professional to find a better match for you. ...
5 June 2015

How can I get my partner to be more passionate?

You are never too old to want or have passion in your love life- it's what keeps your desire for sex going and makes your sex life satisfying. If you ...
4 June 2015

Why do me and my boyfriend argue all the time?

The first question I would ask is what you argue about- is it bigger issues regarding you future together or everyday niggles? If you argue over larger matters, then this ...
4 June 2015

Why do I have a gut feeling something's wrong in my marriage?

I would first ask yourself if you are a person who always thinks the worst- you may be looking for something that's not there and worrying unnecessarily. I would suggest ...
4 June 2015

Why won't my partner let me post pictures of us on Instagram?

Some people are just more select than others about what they post on social media- it's not necessarily reflection of how much he thinks about you and your relationship but ...
3 June 2015

How can I tell my friend that her new popularity has changed her behaviour?

Unfortunately, people who get a rush from being popular only realise the error of their ways when their popularity diminishes, is it might be a waiting game you have to ...
3 June 2015

How can I cheer my son up after his argument with his girlfriend?

Perhaps one way to help him through his first hurdle is to talk to him about it. If it's his first relationship he may just need to offload and talk ...
2 June 2015

Why do I feel so down about everything in my life?

You say that no one wants to hear you moan- but have you tried talking to friends or family about this? They may be more willing and helpful then you ...
2 June 2015

Is there something wrong with me for wanting a baby so badly?

Perhaps it's time to ask him if he wants this at any point in your future. If he keeps putting it off it could be that he's not ready or ...
1 June 2015

How can I tell my co-worker the truth?

Perhaps you could arrange a meeting with your manager for the both of you to talk in their presence and ask for it to be recorded. It may not have ...
1 June 2015

How can I stop my unhealthy infatuation?

Firstly, think about all the reasons why it is unhealthy and keep reminding yourself of these facts. This constant reminder should help you to focus on why it may not ...