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3 August 2015

Should we break the dating cycle and stay as friends?

It sounds like you have explored being a couple many times to establish if it's for you. Perhaps if the spark isn't there now it never will be, as this ...
31 July 2015

Does my ex partner regret breaking up with me?

Relationships are about being there for each other in the good and the bad. When you lost the baby, clearly this was a tragic time for you both. A time ...
31 July 2015

How can I get my girlfriend back when she thinks I'm a liar?

Women can feel very vulnerable about their partner going to a strip club for stag dos etc., especially if they have low self-esteem in the first place. It can feel ...
30 July 2015

She's still living with her ex- am I fighting a losing battle?

Perhaps, you need to find out how she feels about you first. That might be the best place to start as you seem to be fixating on the future, without ...
30 July 2015

How can I tell my mum that her living with us is only temporary?

She might make the decision to move out on her own as she may remember what it was like to be your age and in need of space. However, if ...
29 July 2015

How can I get my best friend to realise how much she means to me?

Why not write her a letter? That will give you more space to share your feelings than a text and she might pay attention if you have taken the time ...
29 July 2015

I love my wife but like another woman- what should I do?

Perhaps the reason you are so drawn to this other woman is due to issues you might have with your wife. It might be worth exploring things you are not ...
29 July 2015

How can I ask him if he's serious about me?

Two months is not the long to be with someone. If you have strong feelings for him now then you might need to be patient as people develop feelings for ...

28 July 2015

How can I get my boyfriend to trust me again?

Although it may not have meant anything to you, it is understandable that your boyfriend reacted negatively. How would you have felt if he was doing the same with another ...
28 July 2015

Why did my fiance break up with me?

It sounds like she might have been swept up in the excitement of travelling with you. If you had nothing but each other for a couple of years, then maybe ...
27 July 2015

I am scared of getting caught having sex outside what should we do?

Perhaps one way you could compromise is to take a camping trip- and have sex quietly on the edge of a campsite (so you don't disturb families) or somewhere off ...
27 July 2015

Why do I feel like my boyfriend is fed up with me?

There is a possibility that he might be fed up, but the only way you will know for sure is if you ask him. Couples get fed up of each ...
27 July 2015

Why can't I stop thinking about the stripper my fiance hired?

Women often find it difficult to cope with their men going to a strip club for their stag party, imaginations run riot and often we make up scenarios that we ...
24 July 2015

Should I tell my fiance I don't like my ring?

Sadly rings get a lot more focus than the couple when an engagement comes around. There are also lots of rumours surrounding engagement bands; that men should spend the equivalent ...
24 July 2015

How can I get my partner to have more sex with me?

Twice a week is the norm for many couples, however if this is less than when you first started dating- it's not necessarily a bad thing. Couples have less sex ...

23 July 2015

Should I take him back after he kissed another woman?

Even though you had technically broken up, it is understandable that you hurt after finding out he kissed someone so quickly. It might be more painful because it's someone you ...
23 July 2015

How can I tell him I want more?

It sounds like this man has become a light in your life at a time that you describe as 'hell'. Perhaps you getting along so well has made you drawn ...
23 July 2015

Why won't she talk to me after I told her I love her?

Perhaps she just wanted something more casual than love. She may have backed off because she doesn't want the same things as you do. Maybe she does but doesn't want ...
22 July 2015

Should I tell my ex that I still have feelings for him?

It sounds like you have tried to get over him by starting up relationships with other people; however this rarely works if you are still in love with someone else. ...
22 July 2015

Was it wrong for me to have a meal with my ex-husband?

It is understandable your partner might be jealous because you spent time with your ex-husband, if he didn't know about it beforehand. It may have come as a shock and ...
22 July 2015

Should I go back to the UK until my husband comes home?

This sounds like a difficult situation anyway- but the fact that you are going through it alone makes it seem overwhelming for you right now. You could make contact with ...
21 July 2015

How can I get over my boyfriend hiring a private stripper?

Although it is not technically cheating, stripping can cause divided opinion within relationships between men and women as it's a form of foreplay that couples might engage in together. Seeing ...
21 July 2015

Is he making false promises?

As the old saying goes- 'you don't know what you have until it's gone'. That said it should not take you to leave someone for them to know what they ...
20 July 2015

Why does my partner not want to be more involved in planning our wedding?

If you don't doubt whether he loves you then it might just be because men historically don't get involved in the wedding planning process. Men normally have an attitude of ...