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26 March 2015

How can I distract my anxious boyfriend on a plane?

Hi J, Games are a good distraction- they should keep his mind active- they might not stop the panic altogether, however they can reduce the symptoms of an attack. Perhaps try ...
23 March 2015

How can I meet women?

If you don't normally stumble across many women, then you may have to find situations where you can, not all women hang around in bars- you just have to know ...

23 March 2015

Should I believe his story?

It all depends on how comfortable you are with this guy- perhaps you could ask to see a pic of his toes- if you don't feel fazed by that sort ...
20 March 2015

Why won't she give as good as she gets with oral sex?

Rather than altering how you give her oral- perhaps talk to her about the frustration you feel. If she does it right when she does give you oral- but it's ...
19 March 2015

Why do I laugh every time we kiss?

Laughter is usually a result of extreme nervousness, which will arise from your inexperience in a couple and at kissing. The more you practice the easier it will become. Try ...
19 March 2015

How can I make my girlfriend laugh?

Firstly if you try to be funny and you are not naturally quick witted, then it might never happen. You may spend the entire time thinking of amusing things to ...

18 March 2015

How can I be less socially awkward?

Hi Amy, thanks for getting in touch. The room doesn’t light up when a lot of people walk into it, it’s just that they don’t notice it as much as you. ...
18 March 2015

Why do I feel awkward getting back in touch with him?

Hi Lottie, I would suggest that honesty could be your best policy here. You didn’t contact him for legitimate reasons- if you text him out of the blue or make up ...
16 March 2015

Why did my best friend tell me that she slept with my boyfriend?

If you parted on bad terms then perhaps this is just her way of trying to make you unhappy because she is no longer there. It can be hard for ...
11 March 2015

How can I priorotise my boyfriend?

There seem to be a few contradictions here. He has said that you don't make time for him but when you offered to take a step back he has asked ...
11 March 2015

How can I stop feeling so lonely?

It is very admirable that you were able to break away from these people who were friends with you for the wrong reasons. I'm sure many of them wish they ...
10 March 2015

I'm losing her- how can I put a stop to it?

There is no harm in admitting that you feel she might be slipping away from you- even as friends. If you are close then maybe tell her how you feel ...
10 March 2015

How can I stop being moody with people I love?

I would at first look at what is making you moody. Is there something in your life that is not going your way right now? Or can you not attribute ...
9 March 2015

How can I help myself get over my ex?

The quick answer is probably, yes. If you stay in contact with your ex as friends, it’s a really honourable thing to try and achieve, but after a break up, ...
9 March 2015

How can I get over him?

If you focus on the constant arguing and the need for space to reinforce why you split up, this will help you to get over him. Going back there would ...
9 March 2015

How am I supposed to get over my ex?

Hi Sarah, If you constantly argued then it doesn’t sound like things have been happy for either of you. It may seem really hard right now, but try to focus on ...
9 March 2015

Why can't he get over it?

The past is the past, everyone has one, even couples who have been faithful throughout dislike the fact their partner slept with someone they didn’t like or that wasn’t right ...
9 March 2015

Why can't I get over my ex?

Hi Tia, Perhaps it’s not him that you are trying to get over but the way he treated you- the memory of bad treatment in a relationship can linger for years. ...
9 March 2015

Why is it so hard to get over my ex?

Hi B, Break ups are incredibly hard- you are suffering a form of grief, because you have lost someone you were very close to. It sounds like you are making positive steps ...
9 March 2015

How can I get my boyfriend of 3 years to sleep at my house?

If you have been going out for so long, then it might feel like a rejection if he is still unwilling to stay around yours. Have you stayed in hotels ...
6 March 2015

Why has my husband been sexting another woman?

Perhaps he was flattered by her interest in him and that fact that she chose him over anyone else to seek support from. Perhaps it started off innocently and they ...
6 March 2015

Why is he wearing his wedding ring from his previous marriage?

If he is wearing his wedding ring from his previous marriage then it could indicate that he has not let her go yet. Perhaps talk to him and ask him ...
5 March 2015

How can I get my ex back?

If he doesn't want to talk to you then maybe this is his way of moving on and perhaps you should do the same. By trying to get in touch ...

5 March 2015

Why won't she talk to me about her past?

If every other part of your relationship is going well, then perhaps like you say you just need to be more patient. If you rush her then you may push ...