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22 February 2015

Am I in love or is it just an infatuation?

Hi Confused, There are a few ways to figure out if you are feeling love or just an infatuation. Often it can be really hard to tell the difference unless you ...

21 February 2015

Why won't my girlfriend have sex with me?

Hi Myles, There could be a good number of reasons for this. How is your relationship in general? If you have been arguing a lot, or feel that your connection is ...

20 February 2015

Am I in love with my carer?

Hi John, Perhaps the reason you have formed such an attachment to your carer is because she could be the only woman you have been close to since your wife's death? If ...

20 February 2015

Should I dress up for my partner?

Hi Lewis, Why not ask her generally about role play and try to gauge her opinion of it and if she is interested in trying it at some point in your ...

19 February 2015

Why does my family keep telling me how to live my life?

Hi Zara, If you are ‘fed up of it’ then perhaps it’s time to talk to your family and tell them how they make you feel. If you are happy with ...

19 February 2015

Should I give up work to be with my toddler?

Hi Sarah, There are several things to consider here. Would you be financially stable if were to leave work? Do you have a partner who could make up for the money ...

18 February 2015

Should I tell my friend I kissed her boyfriend?

Hi Ellen, If you do tell her, she may interpret it as you trying to cause trouble in her new relationship out of jealousy. She might be forever left with the ...

18 February 2015

Why am I worried I won't be his number one priority?

Hi Bernie, This might all be down to you to prevent. Perhaps talk to your partner and tell him your concerns. If you are really worried about this then maybe suggest ...

18 February 2015

Why does my boyfriend's mate cause havoc in our relationship?

Hi Jade, Perhaps the more you pay attention to this, the more he will get out of it. Like bullies, if you don't react- they get bored. Friends usually only try ...

17 February 2015

Should I date a guy who gets turned on by women peeing?

Hi S, It sounds like this is only an impression, so perhaps because it is a little unusual and that you are not into it you have assumed you will be ...

16 February 2015

Why did he tell me he loved me while having sex?

Hi Anonymous, If you only 'think' he said this to you then perhaps don’t bring it up, as it might put you in an awkward position if you do and he ...

16 February 2015

Why is my partner so insulted after finding my vibrator?

Hi Holdenvz, Chances are he is in shock that after all this time you are using it, when he probably forgot that he bought it for you. Many women have come ...

16 February 2015

Why am I so concerned about my partner's health?

Hi Butters, If he suspected something was wrong with his liver and he had to go for a scan because of it then perhaps he is just being cautious. Everything might be ...

15 February 2015

Why am I dream cheating on my boyfriend?

Hi Sarah, Dreams are often symbolic rather than being literal. So it does not necessarily mean that you want to stray from your relationship. Cheating usually signifies that you have some unexpressed ...

13 February 2015

Why does he keep breaking up with me?

Hi Louise, In any relationship there needs to be trust and security it to work effectively. It sounds like you have neither in this pairing as it seems like are always ...

12 February 2015

Why does my girlfriend look up pictures of men inserting things into their penis?

Hi Anonymous, There seems to be a surge in videos and pictures of men doing this right now. Perhaps she is looking out of curiosity rather than as a hint for ...

11 February 2015

How can I talk to my husband about money?

Hi DD, Marriage does not necessarily dictate financial support unless that is something you agreed to before or were able to discuss prior to being married. Perhaps in the process of ...

10 February 2015

How can I get my sexual confidence back after childbirth?

Hi Becca, The effects that childbirth have on your body can make you feel a little detached from yourself. Things have changed and getting used to them can be a difficult ...

2 February 2015

Why do people keep telling me that i'm normal?

Hi Kimberley, If you believe that you are suffering both mentally and physically for an unknown reason, then it might be worth writing down your symptoms and taking them to your ...

2 February 2015

Why will he have sex with me but won't date me?

Hi Sara, If this is an issue for you now so early into the relationship then it is bound to always be unless you discuss it. If this is important to ...

26 January 2015

My sister in law is best friends with my husband's ex- why am I so scared?

Hi Scared, Chances are this situation is worse as generally an ex falls out of the picture after a break up. If she is still attending family get togethers and crops ...

24 January 2015

Why am I never in the mood for sex anymore?

Hi Z, Loss of libido in women can be caused by many things, so it may be worth having a think as to whether you are experiencing any of the following ...

23 January 2015

My husband has ordered female clothing online- should I confront him?

Hi Mary, I would suggest that you not jump to conclusions and talk to him first. He may have ordered it for you- or it might be for someone else or ...

22 January 2015

My negative thoughts are affecting my relationship- what can I do?

Hi Madiha, Perhaps you could write a journal of your feelings and write not only your negative thoughts but also find the good things in your life to try and alter ...