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He's cheated on me twice
23 June 2014

Why am I so scared at the thought of leaving him?

Hi Lucy, I've been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years now. When I was 8 months pregnant almost 2 years...
I miss them so much
23 June 2014

Do I have to choose between my husband and by daughter?

Hi Lucy, I live in Spain; my daughter and granddaughter have moved back to the UK. I miss them dreadfully; my...
He never touches me
23 June 2014

My husband has slept in another room for 10 years- what should I do?

Hi Lucy, I have been with my husband since childhood, never known anyone else, he has developed...
My friends say he's using me
23 June 2014

Why do I keep sleeping with him now we're broken up?

Hi Lucy, My boyfriend split up with me in February, because "he didn't love me anymore and the spark wasn't...
'I fell instantly in love'
23 June 2014

Why do I feel my life is not complete without him?

Hi Lucy, I'm really bothered. Years ago I was on my way to work when I became aware of a man staring at me. I...
I got used to having my independence
22 June 2014

Why do my parents still see me as a child?

Hi Lucy! I'm 21 and just finished university. I spent 3 years living far away from home and got used to and...
I don't want him to miss out on his son
22 June 2014

Will we ever agree on child care?

Hi Lucy, My husband left me for a woman he has been having an affair with for three years. We have a one year...
Agony Aunts on Female First
22 June 2014

How can I get my boyfriend to spend more time with me?

Hi Lucy, How can I get my boyfriend of 4 years to spend more time with me? The past few months feels like I...
Agony Aunts on Female First
21 June 2014

What should I do about work?

Hello Lucy, I am feeling quite unhappy at work at the moment. I am prone to depression and anxiety and am...
He has a girlfriend
21 June 2014

Should I tell my best friend how I feel?

Hi Lucy, I love one of my best friends who I’ve known for a long time. But I’ve never felt this way...
They say i'm a lesbian
21 June 2014

How do I stop people spreading rumours about me?

Hello Lucy, My name is Alexandra, I would like to ask for your advice on how to deal with the people you...
They had sex before we were a couple
20 June 2014

Why can't I stop thinking of them having sex?

Hi Lucy, I have been seeing this guy since November time, at first we just slept together and then in January...
I love my husband
20 June 2014

Why do I feel so bad after having sex with him?

Hi Lucy, I am a married women age 37 have been married for 7 years to my childhood sweetheart. We've been...
I'm finding it hard to get a job
20 June 2014

Why do my parents keep treating me like a child?

Hi Lucy, I'm 20 and I just got out of a long term relationship last week and I feel like I am alone. I can't...
I think he still loves me
20 June 2014

How can I tell him I'm still in love with him?

Hi Lucy, I split up with my son’s dad nearly a year ago, we have both since moved on but I'm still madly in...
There is no chance of us reconciling sex
20 June 2014

I don't know how to feel about my husband anymore

Hi Lucy, I have been in a completely sexless marriage for over 4 and a half years now and I have just spent...
They all say he's smitten!
19 June 2014

Should I enjoy the next few weeks with him or end it now?

Hi Lucy, So here's the thing. I’ve worked with this guy for 10 years and we have always had a connection...
He keeps making excuses
19 June 2014

What can I do about our holiday arrangements?

Hi Lucy, We have been married nearly 20 years and I have just retired. (My husband retired four years ago.)...
It's been weeks now
19 June 2014

Why do I not want sex with my boyfriend anymore?

Hi Lucy, I'm having a problem with my partner, a few months ago I went fully off any sexual contact with him;...
Agony Aunts on Female First
19 June 2014

Why has he been texting other women?

Hi Lucy, I've been in a relationship for nine months. I thought we were happy but a few weeks ago I found out...
I don't know!
19 June 2014

Who should I pick? My boyfriend or the new guy?

Hi Lucy, An extremely complicated situation - but long story short, me and my boyfriend have been together...
Agony Aunts on Female First
19 June 2014

Why do we argue all the time?

Hi Lucy, My boyfriend and I have been having on and off arguments a good few months now. It has now got me...
London is not good for me
18 June 2014

How do I tell her I don't want to live in London?

Hey Lucy, So I moved in with my best friend last year, it was cool everything was fine. Then this year we...
We have not spoken in 8 months
18 June 2014

Should I mention that her fiance is working for an escort service?

Hi Lucy, I'm 27 and fell out with my friend of 12 years. I don’t miss her, we had a petty argument...