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Agony Aunts on Female First
19 July 2014

Should I text him on his new number?

Hi Lucy, My boyfriend broke up with me 4 months ago after a relationship of one year and a half. He said that...
Agony Aunts on Female First
19 July 2014

Why am I so worried about my boyfriend's first kiss?

Dear Lucy, I am really depressed over my boyfriend's past. He is my first, we're both 24, both virgins but I...
Agony Aunts on Female First
18 July 2014

Why are we always fighting?

Hi Lucy, I am going out with this fella for the second time. We went out two years ago but we broke up...
Agony Aunts on Female First
18 July 2014

How do I tell my parents that I've failed my first year at uni?

Hi Lucy, How do I tell my parents I've failed my first year of university due to failing one essay? I'm...
Agony Aunts on Female First
18 July 2014

Why is my husband not interested in intimacy?

Hi Lucy, I'm 41 my husband 51 only been married 4 months but he is not interested in any intimacy at all, I...
Agony Aunts on Female First
17 July 2014

He doesn't want to commit because of health problems- should I back off?

Hi Lucy, I've been seeing a bloke and he says he's not able to commit to a relationship because...
Agony Aunts on Female First
17 July 2014

How do I make my own decisions without hurting other's feelings?

Hi Lucy, I'm going through a tough time right now. I'm strapped for cash and I need to fly over to see...
Agony Aunts on Female First
16 July 2014

We had sex on holiday- should we get back together?

Hello Lucy, I split with my ex amicably almost a month ago due to myself not being sexually attracted to him,...
Agony Aunts on Female First
15 July 2014

How can I tell my best friend that things aren't the same anymore?

Hi Lucy, Ok so my best friend and I have a very close relationship and have been through a lot of...
Agony Aunts on Female First
15 July 2014

Why does it feel like he's brushing me off?

Hi Lucy, I’ve been having trouble with my boyfriend. As a gay couple we are not intimate and I think it’s...
Agony Aunts on Female First
14 July 2014

How can I help him with his complicated relationship?

Hi Lucy, I really like this guy from work and we have hung out and we just clicked. The problem is he is in a...
Agony Aunts on Female First
14 July 2014

Why is he sending mixed messages my way?

Hi Lucy, I've been getting mixed messages from a guy I've been casually seeing. How do I know if it's the real...
Agony Aunts on Female First
13 July 2014

Why am I weighing up the pros and cons of our relationship?

Hi Lucy, Is it time for me to end my relationship? I've been dating my boyfriend for just over four years...
Agony Aunts on Female First
12 July 2014

Why can't I stop thinking about him?

Hi Lucy, I started texting someone who had previously done work at my house. I really had feelings for him and...
Agony Aunts on Female First
11 July 2014

I've been sleeping with my friend- how do I avoid hurting my boyfriend and kids?

Hi Lucy, Me and my best friend of the same sex have been sleeping with each other. We both...
Agony Aunts on Female First
11 July 2014

Why does my friend treat me like a possession?

Hi Lucy, I have a friend who has recently been treating me like a possession.
Agony Aunts on Female First
11 July 2014

Why does my family keep leaving me out?

Hi Lucy, How do I stop feeling so left out? My family plan things all the time and say that because they were...
Agony Aunts on Female First
10 July 2014

How can I forgive my husband for going to a massage parlour?

Hi Lucy, My husband has visited a massage parlour. How can I ever trust him again or forgive him?
Agony Aunts on Female First
9 July 2014

How can I help my boyfriend while his mum is ill?

My boyfriends dad is an alcoholic and rings ambulances out for fun so they are at his house 24/7 and his mums...
Agony Aunts on Female First
9 July 2014

How can I stop worrying all the time?

Hi Lucy, I am worried quite often and can't get to sleep over it and would like to find a way to stop it.
Agony Aunts on Female First
9 July 2014

My wife had an affair 33 years ago-how do I cope?

Hi Lucy, My wife told me my eldest daughter, now 33, was by another man who she had an affair with when we...
Agony Aunts on Female First
8 July 2014

Why do I feel guilty all the time?

Hi Lucy, Sometimes I feel guilty without making any mistakes can you give me tips about this?
Agony Aunts on Female First
8 July 2014

Why can't I stop feeling jealous in my relationship?

Hi Lucy, I am 25 years old and engaged to a wonderful guy. However, my extreme jealousy is pushing him away.
Agony Aunts on Female First
8 July 2014

How am I going to pay back the money to my dad?

Hi Lucy, I'm a 24 year old just finished university and I'm back living at home, on a permanent basis.