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I'm frightened I will lose him
11 June 2014

My boyfriend had a one night stand- why do I regret agreeing to it?

Hi Lucy, I've been with my fiancé for six year, our relationship is great, or has been until last...
Will he be a bad father?
11 June 2014

Should I leave him before he does the same to me?

Hi Lucy, My boyfriend has told me that he has got a child with a girl that he had a one night stand with a...
My daughters already know about his sexuality
11 June 2014

I caught my son having oral sex- what should I do?

Hi Lucy, I recently came home unannounced to find my son having oral sex with his friend (male).
I don't owe her anything
10 June 2014

Why did she have to make me choose?

Hi Lucy, My best friend started seeing this new guy and it was going well so she decided to set me up with...
I do still love him
10 June 2014

Why is it so difficult to live with my husband?

Hi Lucy, It's getting increasingly difficult to live with my husband. I don't know whether it's him or me,...
Should I be worried?
10 June 2014

Should I be angry at my boyfriend for masturbating?

Hi Lucy, I caught my boyfriend of 2 years masturbating the other day, it was on his phone. He didn't see me so...
I feel jealous
9 June 2014

Why did he suggest being friends?

Hi Lucy, I have been with my partner for two years. He has been so much fun and I love being with him when we...
I feel so alone
9 June 2014

Why do I have arguments with my friends?

Hey Lucy, Sometimes I have arguments with my friends. I feel so alone and I am really unhappy. Can you help...
She is really flirty
8 June 2014

Should I talk to my wife about her all female holiday?

Hi Lucy, My wife is going on a holiday with 3 single girls in July to an upmarket resort for 10 days staying...
He said he wants to try again
8 June 2014

Why does he not turn up for our dates?

Hi Lucy, I have been on and off for almost a year with this bloke and he has recently asked me to be his...
I don't want to freak her out
7 June 2014

How do I tell her I'm falling in love with her?

Hi Lucy, I have been friends with a woman for a couple of years now, and we have helped each other through...
I don't want to divorce because of our daughter
7 June 2014

Why don't I love him as much a he loves me?

Hi Lucy, My husband and I have been together since we were 16 and we're now 24. We've been married for just...
He says he's unhappy
7 June 2014

Why won't he tell me he loves me?

Hi Lucy, Me and my boyfriend have been together just under 2 years. At the beginning everything was amazing is...
I think he likes me too
6 June 2014

I'm in love with my best friend, what should I do?

Hi Lucy, I've fallen in love with my best friend. But no-one has ever treated me the way he does. I think he...
She might be pregnant
6 June 2014

Why am I falling for him again?

Hi Lucy, I recently took a break from my boyfriend of a year and a half. We realised things were working out...
I've been hurt in the past
5 June 2014

Why am I still scared to commit?

Hi Lucy, I'm scared to commit to anyone because of being hurt in the past. I seem to attract guys but not...
People don't believe me when I tell them
4 June 2014

Does being a virgin at 31 make me weird?

Hi Lucy, I am a 31 year old virgin. I have had some issues to do with when I was younger but lately it's more...
We were not together at the time
4 June 2014

Why does my boyfriend struggle with my older ex?

Hi Lucy, I'm in my early twenties and about a year ago I started a relationship with a man who is 20 years...
Agony Aunts on Female First
4 June 2014

Can we work out our differences?

Dear Lucy, I had been married to my ex-husband for fifteen years and have been divorced for approx. 25 years...
He broke up with me first
3 June 2014

Should I feel guilty for messaging someone else?

Hi Lucy, My boyfriend dumped me for the third time. I assumed it was over and chatted with someone online. We...
I feel I am dating a 19 year old still
3 June 2014

Why won't my boyfriend be a man?

Hi Lucy, I'm 21 year old woman whose driven to commit to living life to the fullest, aka, awesome part-time...
What should I do?
2 June 2014

My boyfriend no longer wants to live with me

Hi Lucy, My parents were very fond of my boyfriend of two years up until recently. We're both starting our...
Please help!
2 June 2014

My boyfriend is worried about becoming a father

Hello Lucy, I really don't know what to do. I have fallen unexpectedly pregnant and am now 14 weeks. My...
I don't know if she feels the same way
1 June 2014

I had sex with my friend

Hi Lucy, I have a friend, she's female (I'm male) and we've been friends for years. I've always had a thing...