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Agony Aunts on Female First
29 June 2014

How do I cope seeing my ex with his new girlfriend?

Hi Lucy, How do I cope with seeing my ex with his new girlfriend and not show him that it hurts seeing them...
Agony Aunts on Female First
28 June 2014

Why do I keep taking him back?

Hi Lucy, I had an abortion in January. It was a rushed decision as it was nearly 12 weeks.
Agony Aunts on Female First
28 June 2014

My boyfriend can't get an erection- what can I do?

Hey Lucy, My boyfriend suffers from social anxiety and depression, this also affects are sex life.
Agony Aunts on Female First
28 June 2014

Why won't he pursue his divorce?

Hi Lucy, I'm in a relationship with a married man, it’s been a year and we have a 2 month old baby. His wife...
Agony Aunts on Female First
27 June 2014

Why can't I stop hating him for what he did to me?

Hi Lucy, I have young twin daughters and have been separated from their dad for nearly two years. He was very...
Agony Aunts on Female First
27 June 2014

Why did he dump me for sending a text?

Hi Lucy, I text some other person who I’ve known for ages and my partner found out. Now he’s going mad-...
Agony Aunts on Female First
27 June 2014

How can I end with with him after 5 years?

Hi Lucy, I have been with my partner almost five years. I turn 21 at the end of this year. I love him but...
Agony Aunts on Female First
27 June 2014

Why do I feel like second best to his ex?

Hi Lucy, I think my boyfriend is still in love with his deceased ex. They split 3 years ago we got together...
Agony Aunts on Female First
26 June 2014

Why is he always too busy for me?

Hi Lucy, I recently had a fight with my boyfriend of 8 months on the phone before he was due to go away to...
Agony Aunts on Female First
26 June 2014

Why do we always have to rush sex?

hi, Im not one for all this but things are slowly going downhill after 28 years we have 4 children one...
Agony Aunts on Female First
26 June 2014

How do I let him go without hurting him?

Hi Lucy, I am going out with a man for the past 5 months but I just feel as if my heart is not in it. He is...
Agony Aunts on Female First
25 June 2014

Why has he stopped all contact with me?

Hi Lucy, I am feeling guilty as it is. I ended my marriage 9 months ago. I got to the point where I was lost...
Agony Aunts on Female First
25 June 2014

Should I tell my boyfriend I cheated on him?

Hi Lucy, I cheated on my boyfriend of 2 years with an old school friend when my relationship was going through...
Agony Aunts on Female First
25 June 2014

Why has he gone back to her if he loves me?

Hi Lucy, I knew my boyfriend for a year as friends before getting together with him as he was living with his...
Agony Aunts on Female First
25 June 2014

Should I tell him that my Dad wants to see my baby?

Hi Lucy, My parents divorced when I was a young girl due to my father's adultery. Both my parents remarried. I...
Agony Aunts on Female First
25 June 2014

Why won't my fiance spend more time with me?

Hi Lucy, I wonder if you could give me advice please. My fiancé has children from a previous relationship...
Agony Aunts on Female First
25 June 2014

Why is my personal and professional life going astray?

Hi Lucy, I am 31 years old. I have been married for the past 6 years. It’s a marriage of love and we were...
Agony Aunts on Female First
24 June 2014

Is it love or lust?

Hi Lucy, I've been in a rocky relationship for 3yrs. Over Christmas I found myself growing close to another...
Agony Aunts on Female First
24 June 2014

Why did he tell me he doesn't want children?

Hi Lucy, I've been with my boyfriend for around 8 months and I recently found out that he has a child.
Agony Aunts on Female First
24 June 2014

He wants to talk about us- what should I do?

Hi Lucy, I have recently split from my second husband of 3 years. I felt he drank too much at the weekend and...
'We have 3 lovely kids'
24 June 2014

Why did I kiss someone else while I was drunk?

Hi Lucy, I kissed someone while I was pretty drunk. My boyfriend doesn’t trust me at all. We have 3 lovely...
Maybe me and my friend are
24 June 2014

Are we compatible?

Hi Lucy, I'm 22 and am currently in a relationship and living with a guy I fell in love with when I was 15...
He slept with someone else when we were on a break
24 June 2014

Am I bad at sex?

Hi Lucy, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years and, frankly, we have always been into our sex,...
I'm shy!
23 June 2014

How can I start again on the dating scene?

Hi Lucy, I need some advice really on starting again on the dating scene. I am in my early thirties, the only...