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Agony Aunts on Female First
13 January 2015

Am I wasting my youth by staying in a stable job?

Hi Lucy, I'm a twenty-one year old woman living in Ireland with a stable job that pays well but am worried...
Agony Aunts on Female First
13 January 2015

I've lost interest in my wife- what should I do?

Hi Lucy, I'm 33 and my wife is 31 I've been with her for 14 years and married for nearly 8 of that, we have...
Agony Aunts on Female First
12 January 2015

Why do I feel so sad and frustrated?

Hi Lucy, I feel really sad, frustrated and angry at everything and everyone and the weird thing is that it...
Agony Aunts on Female First
10 January 2015

Should I give the woman at work a Valentine's gift?

Hi Lucy, I really like this girl at work and I find it really difficult to make a move.
Agony Aunts on Female First
9 January 2015

How do I create a spark between us?

Hello Lucy, My name's Neil. I'm attracted to this new woman that's started at my work. She's only a temp...
Agony Aunts on Female First
9 January 2015

Should I get back with my ex or be without the spark?

Hi Lucy, I understand this a female site, so sorry- but I feel it could be relatively applicable. Firstly I'm...
Agony Aunts on Female First
8 January 2015

Why does my boyfriend make no time for me?

Hi Lucy, My boyfriend never makes time for me. He claims he loves me and i have been so supportive, more than...
Agony Aunts on Female First
7 January 2015

Will ignoring my friend do any good?

Hi Lucy, If you were unknowingly offensive to a friend but then later apologised yet they ignored you for a...
Agony Aunts on Female First
5 January 2015

Should I continue to see a married man?

Hi Lucy, I’ve been seeing a married man for 2 months now and he's never hidden the fact that we are together...
Agony Aunts on Female First
4 January 2015

Should I tell my best friend I am in love with her?

Hi Lucy, I am in love with my best friend, I don't want it to affect our friendship but I feel jealous...
Agony Aunts on Female First
3 January 2015

How can I ask my boyfriend to stop watching x rated material?

Hi Lucy, I feel uncomfortable with my boyfriend of 7 months watching x rated material? Is it too much to...
Agony Aunts on Female First
2 January 2015

Why won't my ex girlfriend give me my stuff back?

Hi Lucy, I was seeing a girl over the summer and things moved quickly and by October she said she was...
Agony Aunts on Female First
31 December 2014

We don't like their children, what can we do?

My partner and I have a couple of good friends, the problem is their children. When we visit them for the...
Agony Aunts on Female First
29 December 2014

Why did I kiss his colleague at the office party?

Hi Lucy, I have been dating a man for the last four months and we had decided to tie the knot before he found...
Agony Aunts on Female First
28 December 2014

We did we have sex after our work's party?

Dear Lucy, I have worked with this man for a year. We flirt all day every day and for as long as I've known...
Agony Aunts on Female First
27 December 2014

Should I have kissed him?

Hi Lucy, I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I couldn't imagine myself with anyone else in the world...
Agony Aunts on Female First
26 December 2014

Should I give my partner half of my bonus?

Hi Lucy, My long term partner who I have a one year old child with thinks he should get half of my annual...
Agony Aunts on Female First
25 December 2014

How can I get my partner to spend less money?

Hi Lucy, My working partner spends money like it is water, leaving me to pay all the house hold bills and...
Agony Aunts on Female First
24 December 2014

How can I find a boyfriend?

Hi Lucy, I'm 20 years old and I'd really like to find a boyfriend.
Agony Aunts on Female First
16 December 2014

I'm worried my marriage is not going to work- what should I do?

Hi Lucy, I'm worried my marriage isn't going to work. What do I do?
Agony Aunts on Female First
15 December 2014

My partner does nothing-what should I do?

Hi Lucy, My partner does nothing! We both work full time I pay most of the bills, I do all the house work and...
Agony Aunts on Female First
12 December 2014

Should I meet up with my granddad?

Hi Lucy, I am a 22 year old female. I met my dad only a couple of times when I was younger, he decided to walk...
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11 December 2014

Where do I stand with the guy I fancy?

Hi Lucy, So I'm on my last year at university, my 3rd year. I was texting this boy in my first year and we...
Agony Aunts on Female First
10 December 2014

Why do they talk about me behind my back?

Hi Lucy, I have lived with my University housemates (8 other girls) for almost two years now.