The youngest child has shown to be the favourite
It’s official – parents of two children treat their youngest as the favourite, according to new research.
The study shows that 59 per cent of the time, parents will subconsciously choose the youngest child over the eldest.
In particular, mums and dads are more likely to side with a younger child in an argument, lavish them with more attention, let them have their own way and spend longer reading with them.
Younger children also benefit from more treats and cuddles, and their parents find it hard refusing them anything they want.
Fifty three per cent of the 1,803 parents polled, openly admitted to feeling closer to their littlest child.
Lisa Penney, spokeswoman for bounty.com, which commissioned the research said: “Very few parents are willing to admit they have a favourite child, and even though research indicates this is the case, we certainly aren’t suggesting parents love one child more than another.
“But the fact remains that in the majority of scenarios, parents favour their younger children.
“This might be because they are the baby of the family, because they are more demanding, or because they find that children simply need less attention as they get older.”
But although eldest children are often side-lined in preference to their younger sibling, more than half of parents polled claimed to have bonded more quickly with their first child.
And 64 per cent of parents feel they have more in common with their eldest child, sharing interests and finding it easier to have a conversation.
Lisa Penney continues: “The research shows that there are definitely benefits to being either the youngest or oldest in the family.
“Whilst two in three parents agreed that their youngest was more likely to get away with bad behaviour, 60 per cent found themselves talking about and boasting to friends about their eldest child and their achievements.
“Wherever a child comes in birth order in a family, the most important thing is that they’re loved, cared-for and treated as an individual who may have different needs to their brother or sister.”