I'm A Celebrity Get Me Out Of Here Day 7: Gemma has revealed that all of her relationships with men have failed because she works too much and has intimacy issues.The revelations came after John started a conversation about men needing hugs as the pair were holed up in a car with Katie and J for the first Bush Battle.John said: "Things that women forget most is that boys love their mummy and they want a cuddle, and when you have children and things like this, you’re ignored, you’re totally part of the furniture."Gemma said: "I’m told in every relationship that I’m not affectionate and most of my relationships have broken down because the guy says I don’t give them enough, it’s because I work all the time. I don’t even put a kiss on a text message. I don’t tell him what he means to me. Although I feel it, I just struggle to show it with people and every single relationship I have been in has broken down for that reason."John: "You’re not cold."
Gemma: "No, it’s just I don’t know how to express it."
John: "That’s you isn’t it?"
Gemma: "Yes, but that what you said about lads wanting a hug and stuff, maybe that’s where I’m going wrong, not giving that."John: "It is, but you can only give it willingly and if it’s not in your make up, there’s nothing you can change. Life is about a compromise, everything in a relationship is but if you change so much and end up like a twat like me, you give up so much of yourself that you don’t even know who you are."Gemma: "I like being with someone because I want to be with them and not because I need to be with them and vice versa. I don’t want a guy who needs to be with me 24/7 and this and that, I want him to want to be with me so when you are together you enjoy your time together. But when one of you is working it’s still cool and it’s a comfortable one."