Being a mother you have many responsibilities that require a mature attitude to get the jobs done. But for some fun-loving mothers, are fed up of being taken too seriously 24/7.
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WaterBabiesUK have revealed that the majority of mums believe they are associated with tidying and homework, while they believe dads are most connected with playtime and fun.
The survey found that 70% of mums feel that they are often forced to be the bad guy when it comes to the disciplining.
In fact, six in ten have been so concerned with the issue they’ve raised it with their partner, while many said the subject had led to arguments in the past.
Mums also feel a little left out when it comes to a warm welcome home with two thirds of mothers admitting that Dad comes home to a hero’s welcome and then tends to take on all the ‘fun jobs’ such as amusing the kids in the evening or reading to them before bed. 53% of mums even say they sometimes feel like the ‘fun police’!
Paul Thompson, co-founder of the UK’s leading baby swimming school Water Babies, which commissioned the study, said: ‘’Mums are very often the engine of the family and do so much to keep domestic life running smoothly day to day. Inevitably, that means having to be the voice of reason or ensuring the children do what they need to, which isn't always the fun option and so it's easy to see why they feel they are more usually the stricter parent.
“It’s important that both parents get time to properly bond with the children where they can concentrate on having fun away from the routine. Our research revealed that 58% of parents have 2 hours or less available each day to play with their children. We would encourage parents to make this time count by signing up to a regular class such as Water Babies.
“Studies have shown that parents can reconnect with their children in just 12 minutes so setting aside time each week for an activity you can do together, such as swimming lessons, is an ideal way to maintain your special bond.”
Whilst the emphasis in Water Babies sessions is on strengthening the bond between parent and child, swimming from birth is also excellent for their development. After all, in water, little ones are able to exercise every muscle in their body – including some they wouldn’t yet find on land.
Water familiarisation is an equally important aspect. Babies who swim on a regular basis develop a respect for water and can be taught potentially lifesaving skills. And these skills kick in from remarkably early on, proven by the fact that Water Babies pupils as young as two have saved themselves from drowning.
Water Babies is calling on families across the UK to enjoy swimming together. For more information on the benefits of swimming for the whole family, visit www.waterbabies.co.uk